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Is he really worth dating anymore?

I've been dating this guy for about 2 years and I think I'm getting a lil tired of just, well...dating! He's cool sometimes. Has a tendency to be quite selfish, a self proclaimed a**hole and I can't remember the last time we went to dinner where he paid.

And on top of all this his "positive reinforcements" can sometimes come off real harsh.

I think I may have answered my own question, but I need some feedback.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    It is worth dating, but it sounds like you could be happier with somone who can make you feel loved 100% of the time. If you really don't want to be with him, then don't, life is to precious. I don't know what your really going to do, put from your display pic, you looked really pretty. Why waste time ? Go out with somone who treats your right! Good Luck gurl.

  • 1 decade ago

    ok so iv only had one relationship which only lasted a month..so im not sure ull take my advice, but 2 years is a long time so im sure you both have givin this relaitonship 100 percent. now if you feel that hes giving 75 and your giving 100 thats not good, you cant be putting all the work into this. and if hes not gonna treat you like a women,his girlfriend, someone he loves then mabye you need to have a talk. now im not saying its all him. there could be things on your part your doing wrong. but maybe you guys should talk this one and decide if your willing to stay and try or end it...we can give you advice but in the end your gonna go with what yu feel is right

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Dating for 2 years? So if you haven't been officially going out, he could have been with several other people? Well, he sounds like someone who just wants to have fun without commitment, and even if this is all you want, then im sure you could have a better time with someone else! Good luck :)

  • 1 decade ago

    He sounds like a jerk, and I think you DID answer your own question. I would bet that you've only stayed in this relationship as long as you have because you've become "comfortable" in it. It sounds like you're not really happy. Can you really imagine spending the rest of your life with this guy--and his "positive reinforcements," whatever you mean by that?

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  • All I am going to say is that in life people get what they deserve, and that goes the same for the people they get is what they deserve. If you feel that you deserve better, then go get what you think you deserve. A better man is my recommendation. Your a brand and your always up for sale, the key is to get the highest bidder. This guy is offering you chump change and your letting him bring you down. If you think you know what your worth, then go get what your worth.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Yes you have answered your own question luv. Explain how you're feeling and if he doesn't try and make things better then walk away. "He's cool sometimes" is not a good reason to stay with someone. Go find someone who treats you much better!

  • 1 decade ago

    Dump the chump

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes, you did answer your own question. Drop him like he's hot.

    He is a phony and a leech.

  • 1 decade ago

    you answered your own question, both in the way you described your problem and the fact that you even posted it in the first place

  • 1 decade ago

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