♥sista

Me: my apartment. It's so freakin zen! I love it!!!

Seriously people. I think everyone is taking this a little too far.

I've been:

a dark chocolate brown

honey blonde

bright red

dark auburn

navy blue with purple highlights

black with platinum blonde tips

and just plain ol jet black.

How about you?

Long story, short...

He "forgot" his wallet and I was stuck with the $65 bill at a restaurant that he picked. He tries to get me to go to a swinger party, then have sex with just him.

I got out of his car at 3AM and hailed a cab home.

How about you?

My best friend is 350 lbs. Her weight is a big issue, but she doesn't seem adamant about changing it. We've started and stopped the gym. She tries to eat right, but after awhile (like so many of us) she falls off track.

She broke my couch the other day & that is not cool.

Telling her isn't helping and although she can't fit most clothes at our favorite stores anymore, she just keeps getting bigger.

I want her to be a happier person and live a long life. I mean, we're only in our late 20's...

What can I do to encourage her?

I moved into my place about 3 months ago and would like to through a slumber party while I still have alot of room. I need some ideas for food and some games.

Any suggestions?!

Thanks a million!!!!

After 8 years of an engagement gone sour, dating for all the wrong reasons, being a few guys "unofficial girlfriends", and a couple wild sex escapades... I am open to the idea of a monogamous relationship. I'm still young, but I have yet to experience what a true relationship is all about. I've been dating one guy for about 3 years and it's not going anywhere and I'm ready to drop him like flaming poop in a bag.

Any tips on looking for love? Or letting it look for me?

A friend of mine that I've known since high school stopped by the other day. I've always like him as a friend and then some. We've always had this cool connection and we've made out a few times in the past, but remain pretty cool friends. As I was sitting on the couch, he puts his arms around me from behind and kisses my forehead. I know he cares, but could this mean something more? Help a sista out!

I was kinda considering trading in my Helio Ocean for one...

I hear the benefits from them are better than a lot of women's multi vitamins. Is that true?

I'm really liking Facebook right now. It's more networking than booty call.

Or do you eat them all?

So, a friend told me that she was at home with her boyfriend and they were watching porn together. A particular scene popped up where there was a tight shot of a penis and he then says,

"Man, I haven't had a Snickers in a long time."

What do you gather from that?

I've been dating this guy for about 2 years and I think I'm getting a lil tired of just, well...dating! He's cool sometimes. Has a tendency to be quite selfish, a self proclaimed a**hole and I can't remember the last time we went to dinner where he paid.

And on top of all this his "positive reinforcements" can sometimes come off real harsh.

I think I may have answered my own question, but I need some feedback.

Or maybe too mean?

I think I'm too nice. =(