how can i know when the right time for sex is?

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i've been with my boyfriend for a little over a month, and we have yet to consimate the relationship. he tells me he likes to move slow and work up to it, but all we've really done is make out and cuddle. i don't want to push him to do anything, or make it seem like this is all i want. it isn't. i enjoy his company, i enjoy watching horror movies with him, and i enjoy the intellectual conversations. i've just been horny and my vibrator can only do so much, ya know? so can anyone help me out?

Update:

as for the person who suggested my wedding night....i'm sexually active. i don't believe in the "wait for marriage" bullshit.

Update 2:

also, i think i'm just not used to having to wait. my past boyfriends were always ready to go when i was.

Tekka · Accepted Answer

It's called your wedding night.

Anonymous · Answer

Let him know you want a complete relationship. if he is not ready you may want to move on and just be friends with him. this idea of waiting is not for everyone and there is nothing wrong with having a sexual relationship and if some people want to wait well they do not know what they are missing sex is wonderful and natural.

rainbowqtbabe · Answer

Be a lil more aggressive next time you are making out and get him h@rd... then rub up against it with your boobs and.... take it to the next level... then eventually one thing leads to another... you'll get there soon enough heehe. Just let him know you love him and think he's sexy and gorgeous and you want to be intimate with him.

Coke Cola · Answer

help you out as in..help you..? j/k. When you feel comfortable and mentally ready.

jay_-/-_mix · Answer

let him take his time! if he takes too long start with a bl****job!

Anonymous · Answer

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