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Who's Wrong Him, Her, Or the other girl?

My best friend was interested in a boy since they were kids. The boy moved away and they grew up living in different places. The boy came back and wanted to pick up where he left off and so did she. everyone knew they liked each other but due to life complications(or she was taking to long for him) and never got a chance too hook up officially. The guy slept with my friends sister but him and the sister never became an item. My friend decided to forgive him after a year or two then a month later they tried to have a relationship but the guy turns around again and becomes a boyfriend to my best friend's cousin. Her feelings are hurt and what should i tell her and do you think the guy and the cousin owed it to my best friend to at least tell her that they had developed a relationship together before displaying it publicly to my best friends family and embarrassing her.

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    I think that the boys in the wrong the most but the cousin is also, it just depends on whether she knew that your friend had real feelings for this guy. They definately should have let her know instead of suprising her with it, it certainly wasnt the best idea they had. The boy knew her feelings from the start and its really horrible of him to treat your friend like that, its completely disrespectful.. I think he should be comfronted about the way he treated the girl, its unacceptable.

    Hope I helped, :).

  • 1 decade ago

    That guy is such a jerk and idiot! The other girl is also wrong because she made the conscious decision of sleeping with him, but she might not have known about your best friend. Basically, it's just the guy's fault. Your friend deserves much better.

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes, I definitely think the guy is being a jerk... he gets close to your friend, but then goes after someone close to her instead.

    Tell her that you know it's hard to deal with, but she deserves someone much better, and there's a faithful and loyal guy out there who's just waiting to love her the way she deserves to be loved.

  • 1 decade ago

    Tell her to please forget about him and go find another b/f.

    Cheaters are not worth the time, effort, and grief it causes in a relationship!

    But warn her.. once she tells him she doesnt want to have anything to do w/ him he will come one stronger than ever, but tell her not to fall into that tempting trap... sooo not worth it.

    Best of Luck to Her and to You!!

    Cinn =)

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  • 1 decade ago

    i think if she wanted to wait she had a right... but then again he doesn't have to agree to wait with her.

    i don't think that they had to tell her they were in a relationship... unless they were going out.

    hope this helps

    and hope your friend feels better

  • Gary B
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Your are all this young, and this guy is cheating already!?!?!?

    Your friend needs to do like adults do, and tell the bum to get lost.

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