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Is this true about black women?

Ok my friend whom is a black female. tells me stuff. Shes 30.

Please tell me if these things are fact or fictions.

Now shes not saying all but MOST

1. Black women always say they are part native american when asked about their background. .

2. They are obsessed with hair. And they say black men rate and judge a black woman on their hair. Especially if its long or real or whatver

3. They are bossy and dont take sh-t when it comes to household things and managing the home

4. They are reserve and not freaks in bed and dont do certain things...if you knwo what i mean,

5 They all love white boys and its the new thing. EVery black woman wants a white boy, especially the preppy ones that the white girls get because it is a challenge and no one would ever expect to see them together since they are opposites. And they also love white boys because it gives the black woman a chance to be more mellow and softer from the usual of dealing with the drama of having a black man in the house and all the strife of being"hard". She can not be softer and have that emotional softer "white guy since they are not gangster or what. Black women can just be themselves and relax

And stay away from italians because they are known to have attitudes and beat their woman.

6. Black women baby black men and raise them to be weak because they feel sorry for the predjuices that the white world dishes out. So they let them get away with everything and inturn black men get into trouble and go to jail.

7. Black women dont belive in abortions. Dont dare get her pregnante she will keep it.

Iam not making this up i swear to god , she told me this. I just want to know if its true or if shes exaggerating or faking.

thanks

BTW i love black women, i think they all are georgous.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Yes black women should be more like Asian women and start dating nice, strong, successful and reliable white men (or black men who don't fit those negative qualities). Then they and their kids will get more of what they need and deserve, and they can let their guard down and start acting more natural, comfortable and feminine like women were meant to.

  • 7 years ago

    1. I know for a fact my grandfather lived on a reservation and his mother was from Oregon, moved to Atlanta, and because of the Trail of Tears lived in Carlisle PA where she died. She was Cherokee. My father is Creole and that for us is a mixture of Blackfoot, black, and french. I have seen pictures and I one day plan on getting a blood test to prove I am multiracial and to see what else I am mixed with. Some women (Whites do so as well) claim native but have no proof.

    2. Like any woman, I want my hair to look nice, however I could care less. I have long hair and it is a different texture than someone who is 100% African American. It used to be curlier like my dad's but my grandmother put a relaxer in it and now it is still nice but not as nice as before (it looked like Chilli's hair from TLC).

    3. As a rule, I do not allow people to walk all over me. However I am not bossy.

    4.I am a virgin. I have been focusing on my future and therefore have been too busy to accept offers. However, I have the lady in the streets and freak in the sheets mentality.

    5.I am NOT, in ANY way shape or form, attracted to white men. Nope, nada, never. I don't want them, never have. They just aren't my type. I love minority men and I am more inclined to date ASIAN men.

    6. NOPE. Black men always complain about us telling them to get up and work hard because we "nag" them. I can identify if we are being discriminated against. However if he has done something wrong, I will not baby him or anyone. Period.

    7. Why would you want to kill a baby? It isn't right.

    Now this is me and I know there are black women like me. However there are some that fit your description. It is not ALL, it is SOME. Don't have babies with us because we will keep them? I believe every baby deserves a life. However, I am on birth control. If you don't want a baby, stop it before it starts and you won't have to worry.

    Source(s): Part black myself.
  • 1 decade ago

    1. Most black people living today are mixed with Native American.

    2. Most women are obsessed with their hair. Black hair texture just tends to be an issue for some styles that black women choose to wear.

    3. Most women can be a little bossy if they are trying to get something done, and the people they are bossing around aren't doing as they are told.

    4. All women have their do's and don'ts in bed.

    5. I don't know any black women that would date a white man.

    6. Often times, black households are broken, but if they are raised in areas where there is little opportunity, sometimes crime is their last resort. It's not that they were raised weak.

    7. I know black women who have had abortions, and others who've had more kids than they can handle.

    Sooooooooo you're friend doesn't know what she's talking about, and cannot speak for anyone else but herself. Everyone is an individual and should not be made assumptions on just because of how much pigmentation they have.

  • Alta
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    I think most black people say they're part native american because they just dont know. Alot of the stuff she's saying is a stereotype yet for the most part true for such a large number. I agree with her about the raising of the Black men. Single mothers are raising these boys and not teaching them how to be men, its a very difficult thing for a woman to teach a boy to be a man. Not one of those that you list apply to me, however, I do like white boys, regular ones. lol

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  • 1 decade ago

    1. No. I'm mostly Black. The other things are negligible as I look Black.

    2. Hair is a big part of our culture and sadly, many of us judge others based on it. I'm not all obsessed about it, but it's true that many of us worry too much about it.

    3. Depends on the woman. My mom and dad are pretty egalitarian and I'm laid back about such things as well.

    4. I still have my V card, so I can't answer that one.

    5. Getting a White guy isn't on my bucket list.

    6. HAHAHHA no. Not true.

    7. I'm very pro-choice, but a lot of us (Black Americans) adhere to the belief "if you laid down to do it, you can take care of it."

    Source(s): Me as I can only answer for myself.
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Most blacks are mixed with french and Native american. Especially more if your from the south.

    1. I actually am Part native american, like 30% [Choctaw, can speak a little of the language too]

    2. I like my hair but I'm not that obsessed.But there are girls that do do that.

    3. No, whats wrong with your friend? Some women do and some don't, that goes for any ethnicity. My friend bosses her mom around and hit her mom and made her cry.

    4. bshhhh. BS. If you only knew ;]

    5. I date any ethnicity. I haven't dated a white guy before. Only hispanics.

    6.WTF. I'd never date an ex-convict, and I don't like the thug type. I like NORMAL guys. Dress nice, a little baggy not ball sack tight pants. fitted t-shirts. Men that have decent grades, I love jocks. Huge fan of sports. [good game STEELERS!]

    7. I can't speak for everyone, but I'm against abortion, I'm a christian so yeah. If I was good enough to enjoy the sex I should be able to be women enough to suffer the consequences and keep it. Killing babies is wrong to me.

    P.S. please stop talking to your friend, tell hear she's ignorant and one dumb chick. She's poisoning your brain with stereotypes of HER own people on top of that.

    I don't agree with what she said, she's saying opinions. not everyone does the same exact thing.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    I've never been intimate w/ an African-American woman, so I wouldn't know about any differences (real or imagined) from Caucasian, or any other ethnic group. I don't think it's based in reality to stereo-type races that way. I have a personal attraction to brown-eyed brunettes, so being w/ any race of female w/ those physical characteristics wouldn't be out of the realm of possibility. It is my belief that personality (not race) is the main determining factor in a woman's sexual inhibitions -- or the lack thereof. Their mate's virility & stamina would also be a contributing factor. ~:)>

  • 1 decade ago

    well, i am eighteen and i am in college. my long term best friend is a prep style white guy, but knowing him all my life i actually love him.

    in fact, this Valentine's Day i am telling him how i feel about him...since last yr he said he loves me.

    i sometimes make a big deal out of my hair. i do not like loong "fake" hair...plus i just pull my hair back.

    i dont give crap what anybody has to say about my hair really.

    idk about the other stuff, cuz im still a virgin and glad. :)

    yes some black men do tend to rate.

    sorry, i cant get into all the other stuff cuz then my answer would be like PAGES long!!!

    but i am glad you like black women...i think people just need to love people because that is what we are.

    our cultures are different. so?

    i definately do not believe in abortions...it is murder...ANYWAYS..

    african american women just want to be treated as women..and respected..

    so if it is a man of a diff. race that can treat us right...it is perfect then.

    your friend does not represent every single african american woman out there.

    but in my opinion personally, she is partially right.

    Source(s): gorgous!! :)
  • 1 decade ago

    OMG That is some funny &?¿§. Did she mention how most blacks like fried chicken, watermelon and grape soda? How about black men wont go down and give them oral pleasure. I have several black friends who given the choice would pick Taco Bell over KFC, and love to tongue the no no spot.

    I wont speak for the black race, or any race for that matter. I will curiously watch the answers to follow. I wonder the reason whites go to jail?

  • 1 decade ago

    I'm sure she must believe this stuff or she would not have told you all this, but nothing is true of all Black women. It's funny though, I have heard some of my friends say some of this stuff...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Of course thats not true. don't generalize one group of people as being the same. There are alot of Black people who Indeed are really mixed with Native American, So everyone doesn't lie about it. I think thats stupid to claim somethin your not anyways

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