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ok i really need some help...?
ok so... i need some because i actually had sex for the first time..and the guy i did it with thinks that i did two other times..and i never did...but when we first did it..i couldnt relax myself, it was like i wasnt accepting it..but i need some advice for the next time..plzzzz...
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- Christine HLv 71 decade agoFavorite Answer
The problem with sex is that although it should be amazing we are always worrying if we are good enough at it!
Just let your emotions take you where they will go, but be sure that you really, really, want to be with the person you are letting explore your body. It is an act of giving as well as taking and allowing yourself to give what is most precious- you! - is not something to be undervalued.
Be certain that it is what you want , not what you feel compelled to do to make someone want to stay by your side. You are worth way more than that.
Sex can never be awful if you hold on to that part of yourself that respects yourself, but it can be (and will be in the future) amazing.
That is why it is so popular!!!
- ilovemessagesLv 71 decade ago
the only thing i can tell you is next time try to relax,it is a most beautiful thing between 2 people...first time is always a very tense time for the female..well also for the male...anyways..now your first time is over, you probably can relax more and enjoy it more....just concentrate on the moment, concentrate on him and nothing else, you should feel safe with him....i really don't know what else i could tell you...
