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Help I need help with Love!!?
I just started dating this guy for like a week. We already told each other that we love each other already! I really do love him though. Anyway I nobody (on my side of the relationship) knows that I told him that I love him. I just don't feel like people telling me that I don't know him and that I don't love him. But he told me he loves me before he hung up and I was around my mom so I said "okay" and he was like "aww its like that cause you in front of your mom" all I could say was come on because I didn't want my mother to have anything to say about it. Was I wrong? I do feel bad because I do love him and I feel like I played him because of what other people might say.What do I do?(I'm grown and I am asking about this I know I just need people's opinions)
18 Answers
- SnowwolfLv 51 decade agoFavorite Answer
You need to give it more time to know each other. I know it may feel like love, but it may not be. You will know in time.
Good Luck to you
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- 1 decade ago
If he's the one then he's the one, time doesn't matter. I think there's someone out there for everyone that is just your perfect match, it's almost not even something you can describe, just a feeling you have when your with or think about that person. If you've never felt it then you can't understand. My girlfriend was a waitress at a bar I would always go to and see her at, we weren't together then but we could just tell there was something there. I didn't see her for a pretty long time and then one night we met up and that's like all it took for me, that one night out we had changed everything. If people judge then let them judge. I always used to tell my girlfriend I can't wait until we've been together for a long time so our friends/family will take us more seriously and maybe even comprehend a tiny bit of what we feel towards each other. If you feel that way go for it, just keep it on the DL for a bit, it's more private and sacred that way, and special for just the two of you. The longer it lasts the more accepting people will be and by that time if it was meant to be it won't matter anyway what anyone thinks.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Hmmm..some say it isn't possible to love someone in a week, but then again some say they believe in love at first sight, so! Just to get that over with b/c I guarantee people on here are gonna tell you that you are not in love yet. This could be love, but I don't think you were wrong about not saying it in front of your mom, some people aren't comfortable with their parents being in their love lives it's ok. He sounded like he wasn't upset over it, he made a joke about it :) I would explain to him that you do feel the same, but it was bad timing..he sounds resilliant, he'll understand.
Good Luck^^
Source(s): I - Brutal BabyLv 51 decade ago
Impossible to fall in love after a week. Im sure you are not "grown"
a week does not even give you enough time to know the guy. Im sure its just a crush, you seem like you dont even know what love is. when you grow up you will understand and you will look back at this and laugh at yourself. like im laughing at you :) No offense, i may come off as rude but i am just a really straight forward girl. i get down to the point from the begining. Just have fun with him, stop throwing the word LOVE around, love is a powerful thing its not something you say to just anybody. be smart.
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- Apple BlossomLv 41 decade ago
Wow well if you really loved someone you can say it in front of anyone. Who cares what they think? Right?
But honestly you can't really love someone knowing them only a week. You may like them a lot. But you don't really know him yet. Not saying it's not going to happen. But just give it sometime.
Maybe you really didn't say it because you really are not sure if you do love him yet. And that's ok.
You have time. :)
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Everyone has their own meaning of love but you have to admit that you may love some things about him, but can't possible really love who he is..which is the basis of real love.
Tell him if you want, too.. I mean its your life. But know that it means a whole lot more to a person and makes you seem like a more mature and sensible person when you actually take the time to get to know a lot about a person before you say I love you.
- 1 decade ago
Well, I decided a long time ago it is your relationship not theirs. If they do not get it so be it. It is not meant for them to understand. You should feel comfortable to tell him that. If your mom says something about it just tell her that it is you not her. You are allowed to feel anyway you want to. There is no time limit on love and I do not know what many people are ashamed to share it. If you know you love him then girl start to embrace that. Who cares about anyone else.
- 1 decade ago
In my opinion it's a little early in the relationship to be saying I love you. Take it slow. There's a lot of guys out there. Have fun. Don't get too serious.
- 1 decade ago
Only you know how you feel. The more people you involve the more they will tell you otherwise. If you think you are in love, don't be afraid to show it. Don't worry what other people think, if you go thru life worry about what others think you'll never really be happy.
- .Lv 51 decade ago
Girl how can you truly fall in love with someone in a week? It takes about a year to truly fall in love. You are jst infatuated...I would call this puppy dog love...it wont last just give it a month or two