This girl I like says "we cant work" but 2 days ago we hooked up?!?

leave her alone and play hard to get. she'll realize that she'll miss you if she isn't around you. because right now it seems you want her more than she wants you. you have to switch it around.

You say that you are in 'lust' with her so it sounds more like you want a physical relationship with her instead of a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship.

She probably is confused but she has given you your answer when she told you that;

"we can't work"

She does not want to hurt you

She wants to see what happens with the other guy

She would like to remain friends with you.

If you have "lust" or "romantic" feelings a friendship with her might be very difficult on you. So you need to decide if that difficulty is worth it.

Good luck. I have posted a few websites. I hope they help.

That is SOOOO sweet! What a lovely Valentine's day love story. You should write that to some newspaper like "Dear Alice..." Seriously, very sweet. But you typed in "lust" so you know you're not YET in really deep love with her. I've never really seen it from a man's point of view, so this is very interesting that there is a woman who is playing the man for a sucker this time. You deserve better than that and she shouldn't through her "heart" around everywhere. Your heart is special and you hold it for the right one.

i understand this kind of situation, i was in something similar and it hurt like hell because i was in love. trust me don't waste your time, i know this must sound harsh but 15 1/2 is still young, you should enjoy yourself. dont let relationships confuse you yet, there is plenty of time for that.

stay friends if you think you want to but otherwise break it all off, trust me these things hurt and sometimes we just dont need the pain

good luck

well if you don't want a relationship from it then you shouldn't be asking this question. also if she can't make up her mind, it's just because she's messin with you and that other guy. she WANTS you to do something for valentine's day so the other dude gets jealous and does something even more for her. if she thought something was going to happen with this other dude, she should not have hooked up with you, and vice versa. it's not worth getting all worked up over. she doesn't have feelings for you, or else she wouldn't be messin around with this other dude too. she just seems like a sl*ut to me.

Dude. One word. Rebound.

Move on. Plenty more fish in the sea. Dont get botherd if one girl doesnt work out, there will be more....

Good luck and just be confident. Theyre only human like us (most of the time).

If it was me i would say... If you really had feelings for me you wouldnt have kissed that other guy so heres your chance to tell me do you have feeling for me or not because i cant live being your friend and likeing at the same time and watching you kiss other guys so yes or no...

Too young to be in relationship. Wait till you guys turn at least 18 and 19 years old.

Awh you poor thing! She sounds like the

female version of a womanizer! Really try

your best to move on. But if you like her that

much do anything and everything to show her that

GOOD LUCK!

well, you kinda just have to let her go...it was wrong for her to hook up with you and then tell it wouldnt work out...or the other way around... she didnt think that was what would really hurt you the most. shes not for you if she did that.... that was wrong of her... VERY wrong of her!!! your young, enjoy the time you have to yourself!! there are plenty of girls that you will fall for...just make sure they are head over heels for you and treat you like the sun shines out your ***!!! :)

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Just let her go dude, you can find better than her. Sounds like she just wants to be a little high school whore and play the c**k field