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OMG HELP PLEASEEE HELP HELP HELP!!!!!?
i tookk a tst an i um pregnent! idk wat to do ur hw to tell mi bf he is gunnaaa be madd srisly an my momm will hat me shu muchh! helpp!
im 13 and i took 3 test
20 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
First of all, all the answers I've read prior to this are ridiculous and in no way helpful... except for the one on What To Expect When You're Expecting.
Your boyfriend, depending on your respective ages, is probably going to freak out. He has no reason to be angry at you, however, and any lack of support on his part is just complete... well, obscenities aside, if he isn't with you, he isn't worth it anyway. Your mother should be expected to be far more supportive, though even that can be a mystery in this day and age. She may react poorly at first, but she does love you, and hopefully will help you through this, whatever decision it is you come to.
Beyond that, I'm not really sure what it is you're asking for help with. I don't know how old you are, but you should probably start forming some very serious thoughts on some very serious issues... very quickly.
- 1 decade ago
The first thing you need to do is sit down with your parents today and let them know you are pregnant you also need to sit down with your boyfriend and his parents as well also today if it is possible. There are a few options that you need to decide on. You have to figure out if you are going to keep the child give it up for adoption or the worst possible would be to have an abortion and of course no matter the decision you make you need to keep your parents,boyfriend, and his parents informed of the decisions that you make concerning the child. I wish you the best of luck with this.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
at the end of the day its not just your fault. your boyfriend has no right to be angry bkos it takes two to tango and he should have kept it covered!! contraception isn't just down to you!
if he loves you then he'll stick by you whatever decision you make, the same goes for your mum too. she may be angry at first but she'll soon come round.
just consider your options seriously and do what you feel is best, its your baby and no one can make that decision for you.
i had an abortion when i was 15 and it was the hardest decision i ever had to make (my bf at the time was an absolute t**t) but looking back now i know that it was the best thing for me to do at the time. I lost my first at 17, he was born terminally brain damaged, have since gone on to have another healthy little boy.
- 1 decade ago
From the text speak, I assume you are a young girl?
If you cannot approach your mum on your own then perhaps a trusted teacher could help you.
Please do not hide your pregnancy and ask at your school if there is someone who could offer counseling.
As for your boyfriend then if he is very young then his parents need to be informed as well so that both families can get together and work out what is best for you and your unborn child.
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- Sound..Lv 41 decade ago
Firstly, what age are you? that'd help us determine how serious your crisis is....
I assume your about 13?
Tell your mom first. Yes, she will be mad but your going to need a lot of support through this.
Secondly, with the help of your mom, tell your BF and his parents. There's no reason he should get away from this situation.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
That's what you get for having sex with someone you're not sure will help you. Tell your boyfriend and if he's going to support you and you want to keep the baby, then the two of you will have to tell your mother together. If he's not going to help you, get an abortion or suck it up and tell your mother. Good luck.
- SarahLv 41 decade ago
If you want to get real answers you need to spell correct. But anyways, Just tell him, You both did it. He will get over it. As for your mom, she's your mom she'll be mad at first but they are never has mad as you think they are going to be. You made a mistake, but it isn't the end of the world.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
first of all, learn how to type so it is understandable. second, tell the truth. its your boyfriends fault too and this is too big of an issue for your mom to get actually mad to a point where your in trouble. being pregnant is already your punishment.
- 1 decade ago
ok well how many test did u take?
take at least like 4 maybe to make sure then like if they all say poitive then go to your boyfriend and tell him and then tell ur mom she WILL be mad but hopley she will understand
And please i stress dont get a abortion its not ur babies fault and that to me is considered murder plz dont.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
You will need to sit down with you mom and discuss it. The sooner the better.