Is it acceptable to go over a '£10 limit' set for Valentine's Day?

If he does the right thing and buys you a £10 gift, and you give him a more expensive gift, he is going to feel like a chump.

Just get him something nice, and in a few days time, give him the massage voucher out of the blue. Just for being a great bf.

If you and your boyfriend have set a £10 limit then stick to it and I don't think you should buy a £10 voucher towards a massage. If he needs or wants a massage he can go and get one.

You could pick up a mini massager for £10 (one of those hand held ones with the funny looking nodules on!) and give him a massage yourself. Then he can enjoy it time and again. You could get a little bottle of massage oil too for 2 or 3 quid.

I think if the two of you set the limit in the first place it would be unfair and make him feel bad. Maybe not. I would have to know your boyfriend I guess. Why don't you spend the money on lotions and give him the back massage yourself? That would be nice.

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It's the only day of the year Cupid let's me sneak in the back door.

Is that something you could put on the menu?

The massage is a nice thought but I'll be honest with you, a trip down the bourneville boulevard with the right lady is always high on any gentleman's list.

Be careful. Going over the limit may cause him to feel bad about not getting you something more expensive. This could cause you 2 to ge caught up in the v- day world wind that may lead to over spending and on future v- days or one spending more than the other, which could cause resentment and arguments...... you see where this is going !

I would stick with the voucher of the amount you agreed on. If your BF stuck to that amount you will make him feel bad that you went out and spent more than him.

Better to buy the present and tell him you got it on special offer for £10.

I would buy a book about how to do this and not get someone else to do it, but repeat the present again and again and again, in the comfort of home.