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What should I Do, Leave him alone or give it time?
Ok, I have been talking to this guy for a couple of weeks now and we have been getting along really good. there is just one thing we both just got out fo a serious relationship's, at the same time ( Been Broke up since Oct) and he still talks to his ex. And i think she is string him along. how do i know this because i hang out with the same group of friends that her new man hangs out with. Small World i know. Any ways i feel already that i am in Competition with her and i really don't like that but i really like the guy. His sister tells me to Just wait and see what happens but how long do you wait and see if the ex comes between of figures out she wants him back and I get hurt?
4 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Well, does he have any idea that you like him? If he doesn't have a clue, then maybe you should give him one. Flirt with him. October was a long time ago, sweetie! It's time for both of you to move on, and that other girl is his ex for a reason.
Don't be mean or catty towards her....just don't mention her to him at all. You may want to mention her new man from time to time, to remind him that she has moved on with someone else. If he starts to like you, the ex won't be able to string him along anyway. He'll have eyes only for you.
good luck!
- IDKLv 41 decade ago
Oh deary.... just let him go... it's probably too soon anyway. I just went through a similar situation. I was with my ex for 3 years broke up in July.. i started seeing someone new.. he was keeping me company and what not. Turns out this guy was so unbelievably sweet to me and fell in love with me, only problem was, i was still in love with my ex. I had to let him go cause my ex was all i could think about. Anyway, the heart wants what the heart wants. If you don't leave him first he'll leave you, for her and when your feelings have gotten much stronger. If he didn't care for her anymore he wouldn't talk to her anymore... simple as that.
Source(s): Me :] - Anonymous1 decade ago
i think you should face him first and open very honest discussion with each other and ask him what he really wants you or her and if he still interested in her and why he still in contact with her, then depends on his answer, take a firm decision
- Anonymous1 decade ago
My advice is, not to have much contacts with him. Act busy
