Am I old fashioned and unrealistic to feel jealous and infuriated?

thanks for the reply. but no i think you love him and thas y ur actin like u are. its only natural. but u should ease up i think and trust ur husband

No.... I feel the same way, and at times, I become sort of stalker-ish to try to discover if there's anything going on. I'll secretly read emails, look at call records, etc. Even if there's a woman who likes him, but my husband isn't doing anything wrong, I still get upset.

As for how to get over it or help it, I don't have much advice other than to talk about it with him and keep things open. After all, if you make him unhappy, he might have a reason to go with another woman. If you be seductive and loving, then he won't ever think of straying.

I know it's tough and frustrating... good luck!

Me and my fiancee have many friends of the opposite sex.

When you become more mature and trusting and grow up,you will get over it

P.S. I would DUMP ANY GIRL who read my emails or texts.

I take pride in the fact that Im a faithful man and would be insulted by someone doing that

Your question is hilarious. i think of i flow to apply your question as an occasion of Sarah Palin's Cult. this actual sentence rather cracked me up, "Sarah is staggering, eye-catching, energetic, charismatic, useful, a born chief, self-produced from humble beginnings- truthfully all issues maximum liberals are actually not."

No you are not. You feel jealous and infuriated and that shows that you cares and you still love him [: