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Appropriate Dress for Grade 9 semi formal? Backless dress?
Grade 9 semi formal is ocming up and I don't have a new dress to wear and cannot get a new one so I will be wearing my sisters old one (which is VERY nice and was VERY expensive). My parents, sister and I all think it is elegant but I'm afraid girls at school will think it is slutty. I don't normally wear sluttty clothes and I am shy around boys. The dress is a pretty green fabric (not shiny but soft and slinky) with silver sequin flowers around the edges in details. The back of the dress is what im conserned about, it is backless! It goes down to the top of the small of my back and has a few strings going across withe the flowers on it. length wise it is just above knee ( no thigh whatso ever). I am planning on wearing 2 inch heels ( i can walk and dance well in them) and some acessories. Is this appropriate?? I don't have a date and was planning on going with my girl friends.
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- GreenIYDLv 51 decade agoFavorite Answer
I know you can't get a new dress, but if you feel uncomfortable about the back, you can always get a cute black balero or shrug to go with it and then if you feel more comfortable at the dance you can always take it off. I'm sure you can find a cheap one online.
Like this, but not necessarily this one... might be a little steep if you say you can't get a new dress (which I totally understand)
http://www.discountdressup.com/bur2xl3xlplu.html
By the way, it's all about you feeling comfortable and pretty and if that includes a little modesty, I think that's wonderful and appropriate for a 9th grader. The dress sounds beautiful, and if you want to you should rock it, but it's okay to want to cover up a little.
- 1 decade ago
Aw I think that sounds fine. I'm sure there will be worse dresses worn at this occasion. It isn't particularly short, and it has flowers on - neither of which are slutty. I also consider a backless dress to be more grown up and womanly than slutty. Also it is green, that is a sensible colour! Have fun! xXx
- 1 decade ago
Well my formal was a few days ago (I'm a ninth grader too) and i saw a lot of girls with backless and strapless dresses. I even wore a short strapless dress and I was definitely not the slutty one. You should be fine.
- whitakerLv 45 years ago
in case you have tried on outfits resembling the form of this one and it seems sturdy on then you i might get it. i think of this is suited for an 8th grader, as I junior i've got already long undergone that grade and that i've got seen some females positioned on some skanky outfits this one looks very suited i don't care what every person says. If the kind is older than you or what, i think of this is wonderful!
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
Yeah, totally. If you feel comfortable in it, go for it! But, about the back, if you feel that it's a bit to slutty, find a shawl or a cute jacket! It sounds so beautiful, btw!
- 1 decade ago
No that sounds fine I bet you girls will be wearing things that are really revealing so work the dress and be confident don't worry bout the others if they talk their just jealous
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I think it sounds fine.
If you're worried about the girls calling you a slut, then just ignore them. Unless you go around flirting with all the guys, how can you be a slut?
Go with some friends, dance, have fun!
- Anonymous1 decade ago
It sounds really pretty!
Forget what they say.
If you are really worried, wear a cute shrug or short jumper or something that covers the back.
Like this?
http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fnam...
Have FUN at the prom! Thats the most important thing!!!
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I don't think that sound THAT slutty, but if you are concerned, you could try wearing a simple white tank top under the dress, assuming it would look okay.
One like this...
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Um, is that a little to exposed? I mean if you like it, it is a really cute dress! but if you don't feel comforrtable in it, then you should not. Its a nice dress but it all comes down to you