I get threatened with being kicked out?

There can be a high price to pay for accepting help from someone. If I were you, I'd get out on my own. He's emotionally blackmailing you and sounds like a jerk.

Girl, I wish I could help you by giving sound advice, but unfortunately I am in almost the exact same boat...

My bf doesn't tell me to "pack my sh*t and get out" but his lording his (offered) financial help when I also lost my job over my head every time we have a slight disagreement is MAKING me want to pack my sh*t and get out!

I've only let him steer the arguments to my "owing" him 5 times now and we are now at a crossroads as to whether or not it is in both of our best interests to stay together. I have paid him the money back when he had to pick up the slack on our joint bills, but it is not good enough for him for some reason. Have you given extra $ to your bf to help make up for any extra he put in to get you through your financial difficulties? Or maybe you are still unemployed? Even though it hasn't worked out for me, maybe if you give a little money to him when you can, it will help ease his obvious resentment.

Hope it works out for you.

my husband used to say the same thing to me every time i would try and talk to him about the way he ignored me and took me for granted. it was always if you aren't happy pack your s*** and get out!! well i finally packed up my stuff and started to leave. he totally freaked out and know he realizes i could actually leave. he has not said that to me again since that night. and he treats me much better too!!

do you still love him? is the only reason you are still with him for security?

maybe because he is supporting you he feels a little stressed...hence why he keeps telling you to leave and making you feel bad. you shouldnt have to feel like you owe him anything...not if he really loves you

its just his way of trying to end the argument and make you feel bad because you live with him. just ignore it he dosent really mean it.

tell him next time he says for you to pack your **** he gets no pussy for two weeks