Yahoo Answers is shutting down on May 4th, 2021 (Eastern Time) and beginning April 20th, 2021 (Eastern Time) the Yahoo Answers website will be in read-only mode. There will be no changes to other Yahoo properties or services, or your Yahoo account. You can find more information about the Yahoo Answers shutdown and how to download your data on this help page.

Anonymous
Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsFamily · 1 decade ago

How long are family members allowed to stay in the hospital with you?

I was just wondering how long family members are allowed to stay with you in the hospital.

Everyone I've asked said that they are allowed to stay all day and all night but friends are not. So would my bf have to leave even if he was living with me and I had to stay for 2 days. I mean he lives with me and my Mom will be there so are they both allowed to stay with me 24/7 I've had many ppl tell me that family members can stay as long as they want, as long as we are not being loud or disruptive to anyone that may also be in the room like a roommate.

Update:

I wouldn't want anymore than 3

Mom

bf

grandma

and I'd feel so much better if all 3 stayed because it's just easier for me.

Update 2:

So if it would make me feel more comftorable to have at least my Mom and Boyfriend who could possibly be my fiance by then stay in the room would I be allowed to request it. I've heard that hospitals pretty much have to do whatever it is that will make you feel at ease. With me,I can't be alone in a hospital and I'll f'ng have a panic attack if my bf isn't in there, he's the only person that can actually keep me calm when i'm in a hospital considering i"m scared shitless of them.

16 Answers

Relevance
  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Every hospital is different and it differs also depending who's working at the time. Check with the hospital for their standard guidelines but they are ALWAYS flexible. If you and your partner insist on him staying they'll usually let it slide as long as you're nice to the nurses even if they have rules. You don't have to be legally married to be family. Just tell them he's your "partner" and assume he can stay because you consider him family as well (boyfriend is such a hard label to take seriously). Blood relations and marriage licenses aren't the only things that equate familial connections especially these days. They should be fine with it as long as there's no hanky panky going on. You need to heal!

  • gramps
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    There are different criteria here. It depends on the hospital, and on the circumstances. Most hospitals will not allow children under 5 except for extenuating circumstances.

    Each hospital has different rules; usually, only direct family members can stay as long as they need to, Mother, Father, Husband, Wife. Other visitors must leave at the end of visiting hours.

    The noise level must be adhered to for the comfort of all patients.

    The patients rest is most important.

    I have been in the hospital for two major surgeries and was awakened many times by inconsiderate visitors.

    You need to check with the hospital for the rules. I'm sure some can be Flexible.

  • 1 decade ago

    In the old days, (yeah, I qualify to say that, ha, ha) the hospitals had a policy that visitors had to leave at 8 P.M., but most hospitals don't have those regulations any more. They can stay as long as they like, leaving the room when your Dr. or nurse are working with you

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Honestly you should get some rest while in the hospital. With all those family members camping your room, it won't be restful.

    Also, it's not fair to the other patients. When I had my first baby, I was nursing her, when at least 15 family members trooped in the hospital room I was sharing. Of course they all spread around the room thereby removing any privacy I had.

    They were also quite noisy which made it difficult.

  • How do you think about the answers? You can sign in to vote the answer.
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    When my son was in the hospital I didn't leave his side during his entire 6 day stay. The hospital staff were very nice. They brought me in a cot, a pillow and blankets. One nurse went beyond her call of duty and would bring me homecooked food.

  • 1 decade ago

    well it depends on what you're in there for. major surgery i doubt it will be more than 30 minutes, minor surgery/giving birth, they can stay as long as you want them there and if they arent loud. a boyfriend is technically considered family though. and a hospital cannot legally kick them out if you want him in there.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    no no one is, normally only allowed between visiting hours, unless your under a certain age(child) they even tryed to make my bf leave the hospital a hour after giving birth!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    Depends on the hospital!

  • 1 decade ago

    Depends on the hospital!

  • 1 decade ago

    that shouldnt be a problem for him to stay there with you, i work in a hospital and have seen many people with their gfs or bfs staying with them so you should be good to go

Still have questions? Get your answers by asking now.