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Just remember that you can keep trying!!!!?

So I know this isn't a question, just wanted to let you all know how my attempts have turned. I went to the doctor for some severe cramping I was having hoping that if nothing else I was miscarrying to at least let me know my husband and I could at least conceive. This was not the case and after numerous tests my doctor decided to do a biopsy of my cervix. During this test, we went over the results of the other tests. Since there was no other information, we decided to put me BACK on birth control to help with the pain. It just sucks, we have been trying for just over a year and now our attempts not only have been in vein but now everyone thinks I don't want kids and that is why I'm going back on birth control. I just want you all to know that try to keep positive in your attempts to become pregnant. Until there is a reason to be down, keep thinking that at least you have next month to try.

Good Luck to all of you and please wish me luck that I get off bc soon and the pain is under control.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Has he had a look for endometriosis?

    And you don't HAVE to take his advice and go back on birth control. I delayed starting TTC because my doctor was worried about my iron levels. We waited for a year. There was nothing wrong with me, iron tablets didn't work, and they went back up on their own. So it was just how my body was working at the time.

    And then she wouldn't listen to my concerns when we had been TTC for 6 months. I went to a different doctor after TTC for 16 months, and finally saw a fertility doc when we'd been TTC for 20 months. Turns out i have PCOS. So, if I hadn't listened to that first doc, i would have been pregnant (theoretically) 2.5 yrs earlier than what i am now.

    Within 3 months of going to the fertility doc, i ovulated on my own and got pregnant.

    Don't delay TTC just because they don't know what is wrong. Keep trying, and seek specialist assistance in the mean time.

  • 1 decade ago

    Good luck hon! I will keep praying for you guys and you never know, the pill is effective but not 100% so you could still conceive even if you're on the pill. I hope all works out for you hon. Keep your head up.

  • 1 decade ago

    Good Luck to you Sweetie... I am sorry that you are on bc again, but maybe you need a small break from trying anyway! just enjoy the bumping for a while...

  • 1 decade ago

    awww.. im so sorry to hear that well i wish u the very best luck dont give up just keep trying baby dust to u and thanks for the advice i will take it in to consideration.

    Source(s): TTC # 1 going to start clomid next month.
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  • 1 decade ago

    Thank you for sharing your story. Good luck to you and your hubby.

    May God bless you both.

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