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I'd rather be outside asked in Family & RelationshipsMarriage & Divorce · 1 decade ago

Question for the ladies...what would you think about dating a 32 year old virgin?

My best friend is not shy, he's very good looking, not attracted to guys, has a good job and lots of good friends, but he takes dating and especially sex very seriously! He agrees that sex is so much better when you're in a loving and caring relationship. He's been in a couple serious relationships, but hasn't found Miss Right. The ladies like him, but always become "just friends" because he takes his time when it comes to getting to know someone new, and is afraid of rushing into something. I figure the ladies think he's not interested in them "that way", (but I could be wrong?).

My girlfriend says that if she had a sister, she would want her to date him! I suggest to him that if the girl is interested and if he's comfortable and it feels right, then go for it! Once he loses his virginity, he will realize that sex is fun and not so serious.

What advice would you give him and what do you think?

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
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    He's what I would be looking for if I was a 25 year year old virgin, probably. But I'm not and he would not be looking for me, either.

    And YOU should mind YOUR own business.

    Sex is extremely serious. It is the way into a woman's soul and it is how new life is brought into this world. And also new diseases.

    Source(s): You don't say he's a Christian, but if he is, he probably takes his Spirituality that seriously, as well. Not a bad thing and looking around today, I think we could use more men like this...
  • Fluffy Girl
    1 decade ago

    He wants a right woman to have sex with. That right woman will be his honored wife and no one else. Its related to his self-esteem and dignity. May be he is privacy freak.

    On the other hand, may be he is scared of sex? May be he has some disease that he don't get erection etc (no offense please).

    If you can mange any psychiatrist to meet him and discuss about his values and thoughts about life then it would be best thing to know more about him.

  • BABYM0MMA<3
    1 decade ago

    Its a nice thought, but I would like to know that my partner can satisfy me. I do not want to wait 3 yrs to find out he sucks in bed or maybe hes not Mr. Right. Let him know that its good that he wants to wait and get to know some one, but speed up the process bro!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I knew someone who went out with a guy who was 23 yr old virgin and he didn't want to do it til marriage. After they had been going out for while he changed his mind and then decided he wanted to sleep with my friend.

    he cried after and then he ended up breaking up with her.

    It was weird and we decided he was gay.

    Anyway, moral of story, let him go at his own pace.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    honestly i would wonder what else is going on with him. as a friend you dont know him on the level the women he dates do. its pretty strange honestly. i would assume theres more to it than that.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I would tell him to try harder.

    And that truly sucks. That's just bad.

  • betty s/nikoly
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    no offense at all, maybe he is bi-sexual & confused bout himself & doesn't know how to deal w/it.be kind,don't push the issue,k?

    Source(s): my opinion
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