me and my sister got in to a fight.?

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she is supposed to come home from work at 11:00, and we normally have lunch together, but she keeps on going over to her fiance's house, withought even telling me, so i end up waiting for maybe around an hour, and a half untill she calls me, and tells me she's at her fiance's house. and then she asks if i want to go out to eat with her and her fiance. which now i don't feel like it, because she doesn't even have the courtesy to tell me that she is with him. and then she tells me that i am in the wrong for being upset, and tells me that i am sounding like my mom... what should i do?... should i forgive her, or not?

Update:

oh, and she spends a LOT of time with him, so it's not that she doesn't see him that much... she sees him like almost everyday.

? · Accepted Answer

She is actually in the wrong. She should have the decency to call or text you that she was going to her fiance's house and not leave you waiting around for nearly 2 hours. 

Honestly, just kind of let go because she is your sister. However, I'd be cautious about making plans with her if she's going to flake out on them.

Jazzy · Answer

Maybe you should forgive her. Has she been doing this allot lately since she got engaged? If she has then don't forgive her. If you feel like something is bothering you then tell her.....right in front of her fiance. If you sound like your mom then that's O.K. That just means that you care about your feelings. The next time she promises you something and you know that she isn't going to keep it then you should hang around you other friends.

Ron S · Answer

Your sister is in love, and eventually you'll understand in that point of a relationship her fiance is all the world to her. Yes, I agree its not fair to stood you up like that, but once you're in the same situation you'll think why your sister throws such a fit when you do the same thing to her.

Since this is just a small incident on your part, with time you'll forgive her, and once she's off the high clouds of love she'll realize it wasn't right to stood people up for an hour.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes you should forgive her, it was an honest mistake, but no you were not in the wrong.  She's a little too wrapped up in her own life right now and being a little selfish.  Hopefully she'll snap out of it soon!

I know, thats what girls do though.  They devote way too much time to their relationship at the expense of their friends and family.  (when that happens to a guy, you'd call him "pu*ssy whipped")  Get used to seeing her less and less.  Once they are married and living together she'll have her fill of seeing him literally all the time and realize she's been neglecting her other friendships.

Lizzy · Answer

Hmm you sound like you are jealous! your sister doesn't have to ask you permission or tell you that she is going to her FIANCE's house..
she is now thinking about the weeding or she is just in love.. but she should have tell you that she wasn't going to be on time but nothing more..you don't have to be mad at her..at least she called you and invited you to get lunch together even with her fiance!
Don't pretend that her life is going to be like always she is now engaged 
You dont have nothing to forgive her bcz in not a big thing 
you better stop being jealous because maybe she could get tired of that ! sorry but its the truth

RaHen · Answer

you have the right to be upset, but still forgive her. next time call at 11 and ask where she'll be then you'll know and hopefully avoid an argument.

Kierra H · Answer

i think you should not be upset because she in love and she wants to spend as much time as she can with her lover but on the other hand she should let you know she not coming ahead of time

daisymayNY · Answer

she has to have her alone time with bf and you have to find someone else yo hang around with

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