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i am unable to make any friends in real.please help me?
i am too shy to talk to anyone.if someone tries to talk to me my heartbeat gets ten times faster.
recently my best friend left me and accused me for his failure in exams.this left a serious consequence.
now i feel that everyone will do the same.
help me please.
6 Answers
- 1 decade ago
It's normal to feel nervous around new people. You just have to learn how to conquer that. What I have an issue with is how your supposedly best friend left because he failed his exams. Why is that? Because you didn't give him the answers? He could not have been a friend if he tried to manipulate you to give him the answers to a test. He was using you and friends don't do that. If the friends you have leave you, they were never your friends and that could have made other people who wanted to be your friend stay away. Real friend will not bring harm to another friend. Don't try to hard to make friend just let it happen. If they come to you it's because they want to and you should not be so nervous. If you go up to them, understand that everybody feels nervous around new people. The problem is not how nervous you get, It's how you react when your nervous. Smiles and a soft kind voice goes a long way. Be your self and don't try to be someone your not. Those who are honest will see you for who you are and become friends and that's the kind of people you want to attract.
- 1 decade ago
Everyone will not do the same. I used to be that same way, and as I got older, I was very comfortable talking to people. I am however still a little shy, but I do talk to people. I know people can be rude, but if you talk to someone new, you never know how that friendship will grow, so try to talk to someone new. Trust me, you will have new friends. I became one of the most well-known people at my high school. You will be well known too.
- 1 decade ago
hey, calm down. i never had this problem as i am really outgoing, but i will try to help you. alright. think about how your bff made you feel when you were friends. you should feel your heartbeat decrase. think about this when other people talk to you. hang out with certain people and get used to them, talk to people you trust and they can probably help you through this better than i can, lol. just keep calm, and practice conversations in the mirror or whatever. theres always me to fall back on! :D
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- 1 decade ago
ok. . .
first of all, if someone talks to you calm down if they talk to you is because they want to know you
second of all, if they blame you for your their problems they are not real
just calm down and find things in common with other people you should not be shy
Source(s): common sense