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why does he act that way?

me and this guy started texin one weekend, i knew him but never really talked to him ( hes really cute)....he gave me his number on FB n told me to text him, i did. we ended up texing through out the whole day. so when he got off from work at 2 30 am, he called me. we spent fours hours on the phone getting to know eatchother.so, at 8 in the morning, i had a class at noon, we decied to have breakfast together. i drove to his place n picked him up, we went to mc deez ( mc danolds). we went back to his house and we had a GREAT time. it was SO ramantic. so after that we would tex and staff.we ended up goin to another date ( went to the movies). now everything is different. i wud tex him n he wud tex me back the next day or not even tex back at all. he never calls.. but when i c him in person, he wants to touch me n cuddle. he hugs me n staff. he didnt tex me for like 3 days or call. the fourth day he tex me saying hey beautiful. so my freinds told me not to reply at all.. i didnt and now i really miss him :(. IM SO CONFUSED. shud i jsut suck it up and talk to him and find out wats going on?. im afraid he might say he doesnt like me tho :(

Update:

its not a relationship, and wen we talked we both dont really date so we were just havin fun but he made it seem like he wanted more from it but then again it started seemin weird to me. i didnt pick him up, i went there so we jsut used my car, n he drove. we wanted mc deez, n i know him inperson. he comes to my school sometimes. he is 22 n im 18. thanx for the answers tho. just wanted to make the question more clear

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  • 1 decade ago
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    you can ask him, but you need to look at a guy's actions and not his words.

  • 1 decade ago

    Maybe you're worrying over nothing. If he didn't like you then he wouldn't put his hands on you in the manner that he does. If you miss him then text him back. Really, it's better to talk on the phone with your interest than to text because it's not like having a real conversation. Maybe he doesn't text back because he's busy or he forgets or he doesn't feel like it or whatever. Boys are boys. They don't like talking every day with the same person, not unless they're with that person and have things to say. Take it slow, don't pressure something that is fresh. Give him his space and no matter how many days go by, let HIM come to you. You'll see that he's missed you.

  • 1 decade ago

    Girls, the problem is.. he is using you. Try put yourself in his shoes and think for min... if he truly likes you, will he just want to hug you/touch you when he see you? Or he would think of you even when you are away? To me, love is a crazy thing that would drive you insane whenever you don't get to see the other person. You miss him, want to hear his voice, and you would want to do things for him just to make him happy... and doing all these isn't because you are lonely or bored but because you want to.

    Before you start another relationship, try set some boundry for yourself first. Don't be too easy so the guys who truely want to get to know you better would become obvious to you...simply cus boys who just want to touch you, have sex with you, they usually don't have the patience to stick around too long. Be smart, and tell yourself you deserve true love... you are not a tool afterall.

  • 1 decade ago

    It's "romanticism" wears off. What kind of relationship is based through texting? Not any that has survived, sweetheart. Either start getting him to call you and ask you on more dates, or learn to meet guys in person more often. And let them do the leg work, not YOU pick them up and take them to McD's. That's THEIR job. You probably turned him off because you're waaay too eager and forward.

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  • 1 decade ago

    well im going through something just like this but just do what i do i limit my self to 1 text aday if he dont reply a few hours later i might call if he dont answer then forget him dont call or text him anymore i bet within the next 2 days he will be callin you they like to play cat and mouse games play along

  • KARAN
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Boys dont stick to the same ice cream parlour.

  • Forty2
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    If you think he doesn't like you, he probably doesn't.

    Or he could be scared of you or something else ... there are actually shy guys out there.

  • SCOPE!
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    This guy sounds like he is with someone else. Forget about him.

  • 1 decade ago

    well honestly i think that he did have interest in you but he might have just lost that.. but when he sees you his true feelings come out so you might should try to re-due the spark...!

  • 1 decade ago

    He is just young that is all

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