i have slept with 3 guys.should i tell my fiance?

Girl, you are clean and pure. You love your fiance so much but are held down by the past, which is only that! Move on!!! Would you ever question your fiance about his life before you? I think not! You have not cheated on anyone as far as I know, let alone your fiance!!! You obviously love each other deeply. Get on with life. I wish you and your fiance all the best. You are both so lucky that you have found each other.

Well, this is a tough question. Tell him the truth is probably the best thing to do. Because if you don't tell him the truth, this thing would bother you a lot. But, there is a big chance that you might lose him. It also depend on your fiance's personality. If you really love him and does not want to hurt him, then you should not cheat on him EVER AGAIN. If you do not love him anymore, then tell him. By doing this you have already hurt him. Make up your mind.

Hi M

If i was you i wouldn't say anything about your past it is best to leave it a secret from him. So you had oral sex it is not that bad and you are pure inside your V so let it go , i am sure when it comes time you will give him great oral and just play like it was your first time. If you love him and he loves you and you both want to be happy keep it a big secret.

Good Luck

Hi friend,

Obviously it's gnawing at your conscience. As hard as it is, my advise is for you to put everything on the table. This is a very critical test in your relationship. This is also a time you'll get to see how much your boyfriend loves you..Of course, you can continue to keep it from him, but it's no fun hiding something from someone you love because you can't look him straight in the eyes. Have a heart to heart talk with him and tell him the truth. You might hurt him and he might move away from you. But if you remain patient and loving and he become more open minded and matured, this should strengthen your relationship even more.

You are in one of those lose lose situations!!!!!

But i have a question for you...

DId you tell your fiance that you were a virgin? if so that was not a smart move.

Cuz if you decide to come clean to him, he is gonna be very very upset,....and if u decide to keep it a secret the guilt will eat at you, while hes pleased that his "love" is and always will be only his :0 poor guy

well if he thinks that your "pure" as you put it don't you think that you should let him know that really that isnt totaly the case before he finds out the wrong way. normaly with an open relationship and especaily before you get married its best if you get things like past loves and who you have been intermet with before you do so everything is out in the open. if he loves you he will understand and know that you didnt do anything to hurt him and that its just something that you did.

You know, you need to tell the truth but it is not easy, isn't it.I have a childhood friend, she is my best friendd.Before she get married confide it tome with her secret sinse a child.She experiece oral sex, masturbating...but then the result is she is still a virgin.But her fiancee understood her secret.

If he believes you to be a virgin (because you allowed him to think so, or lied to him), you need to tell him the truth. Be prepared for him to end the relationship for your deceit. Though he may love you enough to not care or forgive you.

In my past relationships I have learned that three things are

the main reason for successful relationships.

1. Honesty,

2. Trust, and

3. Communication.

I think you'll do the right thing whatever

you choice! :) good luck!

A lot of people will say that it is none of his business. But if he asked you, and you lied then you need to tell him especially if your going to get hitched. But this is all a matter of your morals and if you are a truthful person or not-