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Ashleigh asked in Society & CultureEtiquette · 1 decade ago

Both myself and a friend applied for a promotion. I got the job. Do I owe her an apology?

Both myself and a friend/coworker applied for the position of Editor-in-Chief at the campus paper where we work. We've worked together for two years. I got the position. Since we found out I got it, she hasn't showed up to the office, she missed a staff meeting and a party this weekend, and I haven't heard from her at all. She also applied for the position last year and didn't get it, so I think she's pretty disappointed. I don't want this to ruin our friendship. Should I call her? Should I apologize? Is there something I should say?

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  • Vivita
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    I don't think you owe her an apology, you got the position fair and square and she really shouldn't be upset at YOU for that. I understand her being disappointed by the situation though. I would give her a call and ask how she's doing but I would avoid the subject about the position unless she brings it up herself. If she's still giving you the cold shoulder then I think it will merit a more serious discussion (especially since you two work together) but cross that bridge when you come to it. Hopefully she just needs a little time before this blows over.

  • June B
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    You have nothing to apologize for. Call her before the next staff meeting to make sure she knows when it is, and also chat a bit.

  • 1 decade ago

    Sure you should call her. You're already worried about how she is feeling.. so dial the phone!!

    Let her know just how much you value her as a friend and how lost you would be without your "top journalist"! Let her know that her views and contributions are important to you.. and hey.. pass on a little prestige and give her some special assignments and really juicy leads!!

  • 1 decade ago

    Try to comfort her by going out for coffee or inviting her over. After that, just make conversation with her, and then tell her that you're sorry she didn't make it, and that you don't want it to ruin your friendship.

    Good luck with everything...:)

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