Why some men think that women who practice premarital sex lack principles?

I agree, once a woman decides to have premarital sex, it doesn't matter if she does it with 1 or 15 guys, once she decides to have premarital sex she can not claim anymore to have principles.

I think some people have't realized what this guy/girl is trying to say, for him/her it doesn't matter if a girl has premarital sex with 1 or 15 guys.. it's all the same.

I don't really get the Bin Laden thing. I guessing you live in America. I have never heard the opinions of so many every day Americans until I got on YA. What I have noticed is that Yanks seem to be obsessed with religion and really up tight about most things, Constantly on about religious values and trying to tie them to every little thing in life. Maybe you should move to a cooler country. I live on Australia's Gold Coast, there are religious people here as anywhere but Jesus you don't here about it all the time. And nobody gives a flying f#ck about pre-marital sex.

The USA goes around the world forcing democracy on other countries but also it's screwed up values, that's probably got something to do with all of these wars. I'd be upset to if someone started telling me how to think.

You've only got to read through some of the other answers to this question to see the kind of moral high horse Yanks get on. For an outsider I can't even see how the two connect, morality and the USA I mean, read the history books people. Once again they have not failed to disappoint with their self righteous attitudes. How do you guys stand having to live with each other?

Someone will probably report this answer and it will be removed, not because it breaches the community guidelines though, because they just don't want to hear it.

Wow, thumbs down!!! More disapproval from the fanatically religious, I'm shocked!!!

I don't think it's a good idea to be a total freak with your sex-life, but there is nothing wrong with premarital sex.

I used to go to conservative churches that teach that abstinence crap, and I learned that the leaders of these churches actually crack jokes about 30 and 40 year-old virgins behind their backs. Now I just send my Christian friends to the site below which debunks the whole thing against premarital sex in the Bible. It covers same-sex lifestyles too. I hope it helps you.

PERSONALLY I think that if spanking, handcuffing, and dirty talk is what does it for some couples, great. I don't really care about what happens in your bedroom (but I don't want to hear about it either, okay?). If everyone is having fun and it is, as they say, safe, sane, and consensual, fantastic. That being said, there are some elements of the BDSM lifestyle that are more extreme and I think are not appropriate for Christians. These would be the elements involved in 'slavery' and true Master/slave relationships. Dehumanizing the one you are supposed to love is not part of God's plan.

Yeah...

But in all seriousness, women who practice premarital sex usually have accrued more value than women who don't (at least in her own mind); this is often why the woman chooses to have sex in the first place- so that a man can trade them social value.

Depends, if they were in a stable good relationship when they had premarital sex sure they have good values. If its just with some random stranger then sure they don't.

well, they might think so because usually the outlook on this sort of thing is that a girl that sleeps around that many times is practically a h o e. so they find it unappealing and lacking moral values. i believe that guys like to sleep around with these type of girls, but wouldnt want one as a wife. and they have over time gained this condescending name because they sleep with many guys. to me i wouldnt respect a woman thats slept with 15 different guys before she got married. it would appear to me as though she has an issue with keeping one guy and sticking with him. meaning she's a party girl and likes to go out alot, sleep around etc. plus. wouldnt you want to know a guy long enough before deciding to sleep with him? at least a year or two id assume. and 15 guys x 2 yrs.. and assuming she started at 18.. youd have to be 30 - 35. 15 "serious relationships" before hitting 30 i think is plain ridiculous. [:

There's this idea that it's a sin for females to have sex, except with their husbands (and even then, they aren't supposed to enjoy it).

Sick, isn't it?

Especially when you consider that that's the ONLY value such people care about. Or, at least they put it above every real value.

Men who lack principles prefer girls with the same thinking.

well, women who have sex with that many people are usually searching for value in life through sex, but obviously not finding it. they lack some moral value also because sleeping with 15 men is a bit slutty