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Dealing with emotional problems with 9 yr old stepdaughter.. what is she feeling?
My husband and I have only been married for 2 yrs and have a little baby boy. My husband has 3 children from his previous marrige (7yr old girl, 9 yr old girl, 11 yr old boy) who are with us 2/7 days a week and are well adjusted.. till now. They have been going to group cousling for about 3 yrs since their parents divorce. I, a stepmom, get along with them and treat them as I do my own child. But in the last 4 months, something has changed w/ 9 yr old. She doesn't want to come over anymore and her group counslor things she has a lot of anger and needs individual counsling but thats all he will say. What can I do as a stepmom to make things better for her, more appealing to come over, not angry.. For 2 yrs we have all gotten along so well, I have taken them to school, we have shared many family traditions/vacation, etc. She tells her real mother she isn't mad at me, her baby brother, only her dad. What can I advice my husband to do, he feels so helpless? What is she feeling? They all have been such good little troopers for so long and we have made our mixed famliy as ideal as it can be and I am very thankful for that. Any ideas I can ponder will help.
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- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
she is probably still adjusting or maybe she has problems with her mother at the other house.Try talking to her one on one or have her father talk to her.Spend time with her, maybe she feels left out.
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Source(s): * hope this helps - ?Lv 44 years ago
She desires some stable ole *** whoopins. i substitute into interior the comparable capture 22 subject with my 8yr previous step son i ultimately had it. I spanked him no longer no longer elementary yet you already know what I even have not had an argument because of the fact that. permit me inform you it substitute into organic HELL for fairly it sluggish. i ultimately had it. I didnt spank him while i substitute into indignant although I went into his room defined that he substitute into getting a spanking for the terribel behaviour he advised me to close UP I advised him that he merely have been given yet another one added he substitute into basically going to get 3 yet because of the fact he persisted he ended up with seven. He didnt cry even though it constructive did stun him. That substitute right into a month in the past and that i havent had any substantial difficulty with him because of the fact that. in the previous that there substitute into a minimum of one difficulty an afternoon. cling in there. Dont ignore that her daddy will continuously be acceptable in her eyes till she is older My dad substitute into acceptable till i substitute into previous sufficient to understand.
