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How do I greet a non-Muslim female; if she reaches her hand out gesturing hand-shake...how do I not offend her?

Before people begin to take offense...I should elaborate here: It is not customary for a male Muslim to touch a female, regardless of them being Muslim or not. It is not because Muslims believe that males are more superior; it is because women are sacred and shall be treated as such. Only spouses/family members may touch them as such.

My question is...if a woman, especially of the western society, reach her hand out as a greeting, gesturing that I shake it...what do I do as to not offend her...I wish to maintain obligatory of my formality in sunnah and hadith, regarding the situation as such.

Update:

Nice answers everyone! Thanks!...as for bowing down...that is not widely excepted in Islam. But I get the message...thank you!

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  • 9001
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    You cant really not do anything not to offend her, just shake hands, nothing bad will happen.

    Source(s): Muslim, have to go through this almost everyday...
  • 1 decade ago

    I really, really agree with the answer that says put your hands together and bow. It's not a deep bow, it is just an acknowledgement with your head. Then have direct eye contact and give a smile. That will keep the lady from being offended and it will let her know that it is your custom not to touch. As for those who said get a real religion, they are rude, and if other people would be so respectful to ladies there may not be as many teen pregnancies and single moms in western countries.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You should shake her hand it's alright =) Actually I bet a lot of women would consider it rude if you don't do it when she holds out her hand to you and you shouldn't want to make a bad first impression.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    well i know why your asking the question, Political correctness and the fact she may be offended, so i agree with a lot of the comments just nod and say Hi.

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  • 1 decade ago

    just shake her hand. u dont have to hug her. western society is about touching or being physical so its rude if u dont at least shake her hand.

  • 1 decade ago

    Put your hands together and bow as a greeting.

  • 1 decade ago

    Pretend like you have to sneeze, achooo in your hand that way she won't want to shake it.

    Or convert to a real religion that doesn't require such nonsense.

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