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Anyone else out there on the All Blue or All Pink Team?

Hi...

I have 3 sons that I love with all my heart.

I have a 21 month old boy

and 3 month old twin boys...

I was just wondering if anyone else out there had a same situation and how you feel about it and how you are taking it.

Are you okay with it?

Do you still want a child of the opposite sex?

I wanted a girl with both of my pregnancies but I was shocked (yet very happy) to find out I was having ALL BOYS :)

Now don't get me wrong I LOVE my boys and I personally would rather have 3 boys than 3 girls. But I do still kind of want a girl. I probably won't try again but it'd be nice.. I never had a mom daughter relationship because my mom was never there for me and an alcoholic..

Anyways, Im rambling on now... Ha ha... what do you guys think???

No mean comments.. I'm just curious to what you think about same sex children and what you would do in my situation..

THANKS

Update:

Oh yeah I love my boys..

I think if you have a girl you would rather have all girls, and if you have boys then you'd rather have them.. Ha ha...

I have always been more of a guys girl so that is prolly my reasoning.

Anyways, yeah boys CAN BE yucky mud slingers, and girls CAN BE well, dramatic.???. LOL..

Thanks for the answers though... Good luck all blue and all pink mommas...

Adoption is def. prolly gonna be the way we go... Cause I can't take the chance of another boy.. LOL.. My Gma also had 3 boys VERY Close together like me..

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    i have one daughter, i'm pregnant again. in a way i want a boy, but i wouldn't have a clue what to do with a boy! they play with bugs and all kinds of nasty stuff, and i'm scared of all of those things! i would have a heart attack. in a way i want another girl, because i am a girl so i understand them better. i don't have two or more kids yet, but my parents have 2 girls, my dad has another daughter *different marriage.* my bf's parents have SIX...yeah i said 6 boys. his mom was really excited when we had a girl.

  • 1 decade ago

    I have 5 week old twin boys & I'm happy I had boys instead of girls. The pregnancy was very rough physically and mentally and I told my husband that I don't wanna have anymore children. But sometimes the thought of having a girl seems awesome but what if I have 2 more boys? Or 2 girls? Maybe in the next 5 to 6 years I'll reconsider.us I do know that I don't want any children for a while.

  • 1 decade ago

    I have 3 boys also, the 3rd is not actually born yet but almost there. I TOTALLY know how you are feeling. I LOVE my boys to death and love have boys, but I always feel like there is a small place in my heart that wants a girl. I'm so scared though to try again and have another boy. Don't get me wrong, I would love to have yet another boy but anyone that is in this situation knows that pregnancy isn't always a breeze and is a huge thing in life. I can't just keep getting pregnant and have kid after kid to have a girl. I also understand how you feel with you mom. My mom was and I was never close when i was growing up, however we are closer now, my I'm scared that if I ever had a girl that I wouldn't know how to make a really close relationship for her. So anyway, I am ALL BLUE and do love it.

  • 1 decade ago

    Three boys here!!! They're 12, 8 and 2 and are very much boys in the mud, rough and tumble, noise, chaos sense! And you know what, i'd not have it any other way.

    My husband and I are wanting one more and i've pretty much set it in my head I will have another boy, so if I did have a girl it would be one hell of a shock! I know what i'm doing with boys-i'd be lost with a girl!!!

    Saying that though, it would be nice to have a girl. It would be nice to have someone on my side for a change! I don't thik we'd ever adopt though-i'll just wait and see and if I don't then i'll wait until my sisters have children and hope they have a girl I can fuss over lol

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  • *Tina*
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    1 decade ago

    I had a sweet baby girl. I thought I wanted a boy, but I am so happy to have a girl. I would rather have three girls and no boys, then three boys and no girl. But that is because that is all I know girls. I would still like to have a boy sometime, but am OK with what ever god gives me. I think you get what you are meant to have, even if it's not what you think you want. I LOVE being a mommy to a little girl and am so glad I got her instead of the boy I thought I wanted.

    I bet your little guys are just as sweet and special as my little girl. I am blessed to have happy healthy little girl, and that is all I could ever ask for. So I am on neither team I guess. They both bring great joy!

    As for you having another...If is works for your family then go for it. I am stopping at two, no matter what. At least that is what I say now. You must have your hands full, but I bet you are a good mommy.

  • 1 decade ago

    I only have 1 child right now so I guess you could say I am all Blue :-) I am perfectly fine with having one gender or both.. I would love to experience having a daughter as well but I love my son and being a mommy to a boy is awesome.. I would love to have another son and be fine with having 2 boys or a boy and a girl... we just know we want 2!

  • 1 decade ago

    I have 3 girls and 2 boys.. The two older girls are only 10 and a half months apart, and OMG can they be a handful, my other daughter is only 7weeks old so she is very happy. The boys on the other hand you never hear anything from them unless dinner is late or the girls are in there room.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I can't answer for myself since I only have 1 boy, but my parents had 4 girls. My dad is a farmer, so he really wanted a boy (hence the reason there are 4 of us). My mom finally put her foot down after the forth. Although he really wanted a boy, I think he was fine with 4 girls. He does worry about us constantly though (even still) and we are all over 25!

    When my mom told him that I was having a boy he said, "Figures! It skips generations!":)

  • Yes 3 boys is way better then 3 girls! lol sports drama rather then clothes or boy drama :P uhm I always wanted 3, 2 boys and a girl in that order or boy girl boy. to me i will be happy with whatever i get because all are a blessing but yes in your situation i would try adoption actually cause chances are your gunna get a 4th boy... its pretty normal to want to experience both. my cousin just had 2 boys (twins) she tried forever to get pregnant so it wouldve been nice to have 1 of each and now she will be trying again soon for a girl! :P

    congrats on your angels!

  • 1 decade ago

    I have 2 boys and a child on the way. I am 7weeks with this one and we do not know what it is yet. I have a feeling that it is going to be a boy. I would LOVE to have a little girl to add to our "TEAM" but if we just add a boy to the blues, it will be ok too.

    Source(s): mom, 12yo boy, 8yo boy, 1 angel baby, 7weeks w/#4
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