Guys: Attractive older woman, younger guy scenario?

It seems that the best has always been the one nighter. Sex is one of those things that needs to be spread out. What if a football team played against the same team every week? Wouldn't that start to get boring, unless they were both Brazilian swimsuit model football teams.

I know plenty of age-gap couples, where the woman is significantly (10 years or more) older than the bloke. It usually starts with romance and ends in marriage, and there's nothing particularly wrong with this.

Casual sex in this scenario can lead to confusion, especially in the area of one-night-stands.

My gut reaction is to treat age as being of no real consequence, unless there is a burning ambition on the part of the younger male to become a father - the likelihood of such an eventuality diminishes when his wife/lover gets to 40.

Hope this helps.

That's a fairly significant age gap, but if the attraction is there, I suppose I'd be looking for romance and sex, and perhaps more, if I weren't already immensely happy being with my wife :)

It seems a bit unlikely that it would last very long, as his family, her family, and both of their friends would probably find difficulty in supporting the relationship, and that always takes its toll. Besides, there's a generation gap that's difficult to get past. Your priorities will be totally different. She'll retire and want to travel the world (or whatever), and he'll be in the middle of his career and won't be able to join her. She'll be in a rest home before he'd even qualify for retirement.

I think, generally speaking, it's always best to stick with people in your own age group.

if this is the question you're talking about, ill try my best...

ive been in two situations that are similar and the first time was "c" and "d" the second time was "all of the above"....

but a relationship with such an age difference can get hard to maintain. It would, of course depend on what they each want in life and if they think they can get it from each other...thats how they would ultimately stay together, i think.

i'd suggest they start slow and build on it (like any relationship) to assess what they really want out of each other. or he wants. Either way, the "older woman" will only find out if she tries it out with him, or asks him. i dont see another way around it.

"modern major general" has some good points.

I think in general 40-something guys are more mature, but as a 24 year old guy myself, I don't think you can exclude all of us. I have a number of 40-something friends; I was just out with one of them last night and realized I have more class and maturity than this guy. But that's why I have mostly much older friends, because guys my age are annoying. Just know that there are some of out us there. However, I appreciate your question and all of the responses, because when I am 45, I will still have plenty of young women to date.

I love older women and have been with several as I find they are much more enjoyable to be around both in and out of the bedroom. If you really click and have fun together, I don't see why you can't have fun together on a regular basis. Older women typically don't play childish games, they know what they want, and will treat their man like a king if you make them happy. It can be a very rewarding experience.

i'm 20. honestly i would appreciate some sexual attention if she gives it to other guys my age, so that i don't have to feel like i'm inferior to them. but i really wouldn't want to date a woman that much older than me. at this point, i am not looking to have sex, but if i was, i'd look for that also.

I pick c,cause i will be attracted and we need romance to spice up the relationship

im 25, definitely B

hmm, i would probably say b or c.

id want to learn things from her that would be able to help me from later years, and make a great personal friend in the process

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