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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

DOES THIS TEACHER LIKE ME OR AM I GETTING THE WRONG SIGNS?

FIRST OF ALL CAN I MAKE ONE THING CLEAR I DO NO I REPEAT I DO NOT HAVE A CRUSH ON THIS TEACHER I ALREADY HAVE A BOYFRIEND. OH YEAH HE IS HOT BUT EEEEWWW I MEAN IN 15 AND HE IS 28 THE THOUGHT OG IT IS JUS GROSS.

1.) always looks at me

2.) everytime he sees me he make eyecontact

3.)today hes hand "accidently" brushed agains mine!

4.) in class when im doing my work and minding my own biusness lol i loook up and most of the times hes looking at me wiht a grin.

5.) i was waiting for a friend after school and he was on duty that time so when i look back hes staring at me for loooong time my other friend was there because we was waiting for a nother friend to come and my friend said that even after i looked away he was still staring at me wiht his grin

6.) he does flirt not too much though with some other girls but he gives me that extra attention

7.) our shoulders have brushed against eachother before

8.) he always mentions my name in class

9.) he makes funny jokes and picks on everyone but me

10.) he always tells me to sort other students out e.g. this very annoying boy that sits next to me.

11.) when i say shut up he just laughs but when others say it he says "GET OUTSIDE MY OFFICE" lol

so what does this mean? does he mabey have a crush on me please dont say im making this up or i need to grow up because i am mature enough to understand where im coming from thanyou inn advance

IS HE FLIRTING OR WHAT!

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  • Orla C
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    He may have a tiny crush on you, and not realise that it's so obvious. I think you should say something to your mother about it, or to another teacher who will help you handle it tactfully. He's a young teacher, doesn't have a whole lot of experience, so you might want to talk to an older, more experienced female teacher about him. Just say that he's paying you slightly more attention than the others, and that you think he may have a slight crush on you, and you're not too comfortable with that. It's highly unlikely he would take it further anyway - he would have far too much to lose, which is why I think this is something that requires very careful handling and the help of someone mature, responsible and tactful.

    I doubt very much he's a paedophile - they are frighteningly good at hiding what they really are. He's being a little too obvious.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I don't know if he's flirting with you because I haven't actually seen it, but if this is worrying you this much then say something. No one should make you feel uncomfortable, especially a teacher!!! Tell your parents about your worries, or another teacher. He shouldn't be touching you at all, either, even if it may be innocent. Whether he wants something from you or not, it's not right. He shouldn't ben flirting with any of you, you're underage and in his care!!!

    Tell someone, it will never get sorted out unless you do.

    xXx

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Oh dear love i really think you need to get over yourself. Of course he doesnt like you. do you think that he would risk his career dignity and pretty much his life for the sake of a 15 year old schoolkid. I dont think so.

    You obviously like him and therefore are trying to find little things and running a mile with him. you need to forget this little fantasy of yours!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Yeah sounds like he likes you! But be careful when you said grin I immediately imagined a pedophile grin. LOL =] Hope this helped!

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  • 1 decade ago

    It does seem like he could be attracted to you some how,but if this is true,it isn't right he is suppose to be a teacher.You don't know if anything may have happened between him and another student,so I advise you tell your parents and monitor his behaviour,you are right to be concerned.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i don't really think he does. he might just like you in a teacher student way, like teachers pet kinda stuff, but I don't really think that he fancies you. I think you are just taking it the wrong way. How long has he been like that for? Is he a new teacher or what?

  • alfafa
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    so what's your prob here? you have a BF period. and you DONT LIKE HIM period. so any of the things that he does don't have any weight to where you are right now. honestly, he is just being playful and flirtatious to anyone who would get the bait. but NO NO NO. don't mess up with him OK.

  • 1 decade ago

    Teachers Pet? Comon, he could lose his job if it was a real relationship!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    you are fantasising...

    1) you are underage

    2) he'd lose his job

    3) he'd go to jail

    4) he'd be on a sex offenders register

    if he likes you, it is as a student...

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