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? asked in Social SciencePsychology · 1 decade ago

Would it be "passive suicide" to choose to not go on dialysis and just let myself die naturally from?

failed kidneys, I don't want to prolong the inevitable--death. I believe in an after life, so I want to be sure this is in keeping with Christianity. Please don't answer unless you are a Christian or are familiar with it's teachings. And, please be kind and don't lecture me if you have a strong opinion against my feelings about this. I want to hear a variety of feedback. I have not made a decision yet.

Thanks!

Update:

To Baby Boo: Thanks for the offer. It is so sweet of you to offer me a kidney. My problem is that my body attacks itself and would never accept a kidney. I am overwhelmed by your generousity.

Update 2:

To Baby Boo: Thanks for the offer. It is so sweet of you to offer me a kidney. My problem is that my body attacks itself and would never accept a kidney. I am overwhelmed by your generousity.

Update 3:

That came out double because I have a mild tremor.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    i think (i may not be right) if you have an option to get better you should do that.

    but if you know you can get better and you choose not to get better then i think its like "passive suicide"

    anyways, don't die. try not to. =( [i'm cathoilc]

    Okay well keep alive ^_^

    don't die =(

    T.T

    i may be wrong ask you church priest or something for advice..that's what i would do. ^_^

  • 1 decade ago

    This is subject to social debate and cannot be answered. You will have to make up your own mind if this is suicide. I believe suicide is too strong a word for refusing a life prolonging treatment fraught with the side effects of dialysis. But you must look at the alternative. Death by kidney failure can be a long painful ugly way to die. Likely along the way, you will change your mind and say, "OK, I'll do the dialysis," but by that time there could be permanent damage done to your organs, so the quality of your life on dialysis would be even lower.

    You must also consider the option of kidney transplant. There may be a complete stranger (let alone a friend or family member) willing to give you a kidney just to say they did a good thing.

    Lastly, some people handle dialysis remarkably well. Maybe it's age, or overall health, but I've seen dialysis drain the strength out of a person for days, and yet for other people, seemed to be like they donated blood, no big whoop. You have to try it to see if you can live with it.

  • Tor
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    1 decade ago

    Well, on the one hand, there's the argument that if there was no such technology as dialysis, you would simply have to live out the rest of your life and it wouldn't be considered a "passive suicide"; there would just be no other way.

    Then there's the argument that says if we have the technology, and you can use the technology to live longer, then it's considered a "passive suicide" because you're allowing yourself to die even with the technology present.

    For a Christian, it's difficult to think about this junction between God's will and free will, but I always feel that free will wins - with responsibility.

    You can live with failed kidneys. What about friends and family? Have you discussed the matter with them? Are you mentally prepared for whichever path you choose? Do you know what you get with the path you choose, in terms of medical problems/social problems/financial problems, etc.?

    I'm sure there are forums for people like you living with kidney failure. Look to support from the community of people like you, and you can do it.

    http://www.steadyhealth.com/articles/Living_with_f...

    http://www.medhelp.org/forums/Urology/show/113

    http://www.kidneyspace.com/

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    My uncle is in the EXACT same situation.

    He has kidney problems and doesn't want to go on dialysis, either.

    Anyway, It's not really suicide...it's more like not caring about or being grateful for the life you have been given. You should cherish it and not just give up.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You should check out some herbal cures for kidney disorders. All you really have to do is drink a bunch of different herbal teas and you'll probably be fine. It says in the bible that God has a cure for every disease in the herbs and plants he made. You need to go on a more healthy diet, and don't smoke or drink. This disease can be stopped.

    Source(s): The Bible, faith in Jesus
  • 1 decade ago

    Life is so precious, you must try to save yours. God is just testing your faith. If you love HIM, why not try saving your life through dialysis? Who knows, the miracle of God would save you? I'm sure your family and friends loves you so much, so please, why not undergo dialysis? It's worth saving your life.

    God bless you dear.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    why not ask someone for a kidney? I can give you mine.

    Let me know.

  • 1 decade ago

    I understand what you are saying but I can not tell you what to do.

    Please know that people you have never met or talked to really care about you--especially if they profess to be a Christian. We are called to care about our fellow man---we are our brother's keeper.

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes, it would be.

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