MEN (25-35): Are you longing to get married and have children right now?

They are out there, but if those are your plans, you need to let the one you're with now know and that you aren't going to stay around if he doesn't act. If he truly loves you and is your sole mate he will marry you and start a family, if not, you need to determine what you want with your life. If it's marriage and kids, you need to find someone with those goals too.

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I'll answer for my boyfriend since he is 25 and this question suits him perfectly:

My boyfriend really wants to get married and have kids before he is 30.

I just turned 19 and he wants to marry me in two years and have kids a while after I finish college.

I know it is difficult when you fall in love with someone and find out they have different goals than you do and then know you need to break it off, but just keep hoping they'll become who you want them to be. If your boyfriend is 38 and still does not want to get married or have kids and you want to then it is better to find someone else.

I think you are just picking the wrong guys because I have known many men who do want to get married and start a family -- even in high school guy friends told me that was a dream of theirs.

I have a few suggestions which might help you. I know I am young, but I had a strange life and matured very quickly for my age. What I suggest is to mention early on in the relationship what you want out of it. It IS okay to ask early on whether he has the same plans as you. Just explain that you want to eventually get married and have kids, in general. You don't have to say, "later on in OUR relationship." or anything...just say that and ask him if he wants that too or what not...It is actually better to get big questions out of the way before breaking each others hearts.

Another suggestion, as odd as it sounds is to maybe try dating a different type of man:

I suggest asian and latino men especially. In their culture, families are very important. I think a latino man will typically be much more respectful, but there are some good asian guys as well (like my boyfriend). Stereotypically white surfer-dude types and ghetto blacks are NOT going to be as good of partners...especially in the black ghetto community cheating and abuse are a lot more common (it's not true for all black men in the ghetto, but it is more common). You could also try dating foreign men...I have only dated foreign men and they are very respectful, educated (the upperclass ones that I dated) handsome, nice, and serious about relationships etc.

You might also want to try dating geeky guys...they tend to be more into relationships like you want. Maybe an engineer, computer programmer, robotics person, etc?

I agree that your boyfriend knows he doesn't want to get married or have kids and is scared of losing you. I think you deserve to find a man who has the same goals as you, however. If you want to marry and have kids you will need to find someone else.

I really hope this helps at least somewhat and you find your prince charming and can have a dream wedding and beautiful children with a handsome and loving husband!

I know it is possible. You sound intelligent and goal-oriented so just keep looking. :)

Good luck!!!

Come on girl, don't throw in the towel yet. I know that pickings are slim out there, but there are still some good guys, who are family oriented and want a wife and children someday. Some people want it, but don't even know they do, until they have it.

I've talked to some friends, that I never imagined would have kids, and when they did they would say things like "I didn't even know I was ready to be a mother until I held my daughter for the first time"! It's hard to plan a child, but when it happens for you, you sound like you'll be a great Mom. Take care and good luck!

-Knowledge26

Sweetie just slow down you will find him. Just don't do what i did. I'm married while not for long. I've wanted the something as you for a very long time. Hell I've even prayed for it b4 it happen. But now she wants a divorce because she can have me and a girl friend. I'm 30 and dont have any kids of my own so we are in the same boat. I'm not going to do that again.

I'm 25 and those things are on my mind but I have to make sure I got myself together first. It's a big deal most men now a days and even women are really into their own lives and letting some one else in is difficult.

Probably not the answer you want, but just a suggestion. When you meet a new guy, talking about your dreams and what you want to do with your life BEFORE completely falling for him will give you a good idea, or give him a good idea, of where the relationship is going.

most guys in there 20's and 39's just want to have fun.. because

they still can. you just need to find the right one that wants 2 share

his life with you & settle down and have childen thats all. good luck.

I want 2 get married & have a child but can't find the right gal.

but i'm 49.

by the time im 25, if things go according schedule, i'll probably have most of my debt paid off, so yea, the whole prospect would be very interesting

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