Should i feel this way?

I would be pissed

I would first make copies of all the e-mails between the two of them (to and from) and put these copies somewhere safe where your husband cannot access/ find them.

Then it really depends on how easily the two of you can talk.

Since he gave you access to his e-mail, I'm wondering if he wanted you to find these. Or maybe it was a "test" to see if you would "snoop".

The fact is, however, that he has been having very inappropriate "conversations" with another woman. This is a kind of cheating. You are his wife. The two of you made promises to each other when you married about honoring your relationship, forsaking all others, and so on.

He is breaking those promises.

I am not you. In this situation I would be hurt and extremely angry. I would confront my husband, point blank, and ask what the heck is going on and why. What does this mean for the marriage? And I'd seek couples counseling.

Good luck!

damn girl!! I would be flipping out! But maybe if he gave you his email he wants you to notice those things? But if he is offering to do sexual things with someone else that is cheating! I definately would bring it to his attention, that is cheating and going behind your back

I think we would be having some serious discussion about this. why would he give you access to his e-mail if he knew this was on there. Find out what is going on then go from there.

First of, try not to jump into conclusions. Confront him, and try not to lose your temper as he explains. LISTEN to him, and then make your decision after you hear the story.

get out of his e mail, shut up about it and just start doing the things he was wanting to do. Why escalate this into somewhere you don't want to go.

I don't think he forgot those e-mail were there men are snikky! You should talk to him!