Is your man interested in wedding planning?

My fiance never showed interest because I wouldn't let him!

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I told him what I wanted and kept him in mind. He doesn't care if this flower matches this color or what not. I like it that way, I got everything the way I had wanted!

Also, your fiances right. Rings DO get in the way on mechanics. Buy him one and ask him to wear it to parties and formal occasions.

YES!!!! I asked him about the wedding - every time his answer was it's too far in advance to think about it. Now its 2 months to go and he still is complaining that we have soooo much time. If it was up to him we would have just picked the place and vendors now. I even printed out a checklist off theknot.com so he could get an idea of what needs to be done and when, but he still thinks I'm crazy. The nicest way to say it is he's pissing me off and we both are driving each other crazy.

My fiance and i have picked out rings. All he knows is that he wants to wear a pinstripe suit.

We don't have the money to get married right now, so i assume he'll start helping me when we have money. We don't even know if we'll be in the same state by the time we save enough money.

Out of all the couples I have helped planning their weddings, I would say about 97% of men are not into details. Men only worry about the bachelor party, tux, and being their the day of the wedding lol. It's not that the men dont care they just rather lay back and take it easy as you deal with the details.

My fiance is tremendously in contact. He picked the date, he's finding out on out the music, and he's assisting with nutrition of direction. i've got been finding out on out issues adult males are not that interested in- invites, decorations and such, yet I constantly ask his opinion and he constantly tells me surely if he likes it or might desire some thing else. Our wedding ceremony making plans has been extremely basic and low rigidity so a procedures, we are the two incredibly laid back nevertheless, and we are lots greater fascinated in the marriage than the actual wedding ceremony. i do no longer think of something is faulty if a groom isn't extremely in contact. it incredibly is purely a certainty of existence- (some) adult males are not going to care what the colours are, the centerpieces, the favors... and that i think of it incredibly is okay. as long as he supplies his opinion once you ask. i do no longer take it as a demonstration that they do no longer care in the event that they are not great in contact, I generally think of they only intend to make their brides chuffed.

Danny used to actually start planning things without me lol. At work he would start writing out what he wanted on the invitations, and who was gunna be in the wedding party in what order...haha. He was really into it...and then we endedup just going to the courthouse :(

I think I got lucky tho, most guys dont care

God no! My man actually turns into mega jerk when you try to get him involved in it. He is horrible. Just a jerk about it.

I have actually told him a couple of times that I feel like calling off the whole thing due to his bad attitude.

He tells me that it is just not a guy thing and that is all.

He told me to tell him where to show up, time and date. hahah

He is just not into it at all. Could honestly care less about the wedding or planning, he says it is a girl thing.

Mine is interested, but it letting me make all of the big decisions. He doesn't really care about caterers, flowers, and bridesmaid dresses.

He DOES care about our venue, tuxs and cakes. So, he helps me with those things that he cares about and lets me make the rest of the decisions.

He picked out his own ring and keeps complaining that he can't wear it yet. He wants to wear it NOW.

I'm glad that mine is interested but I'm sorry that yours isn't.

Maybe if you tell him that it's his day as well and that you value his input.

Good luck

Some men are just that way but my fiance' is really involved bc he really wanted the big day, I wanted a civil ceremony but he wants he day..don't get discouraged, stay encouraged some men are just that way..they are from mars....lol

My husband was interested in the photographer. That's it. He went with me to the other appointments, and was asked for his opinion, but the only thing he felt very strongly about getting very good photography.