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pebblespro asked in Social SciencePsychology · 1 decade ago

This is weird do you think it could happen?

Recently, I found out my first "love" died unexpectedly. We dated a long time ago and since hadn't spoken or gotten in touch. Back in the day we were quite serious but, things didn't work out. We went on with our lives and now that he's passed. I feel sad about it.... My question is.. Is it possible that he's been trying to "contact" me? When we were together we loved music we'd drive around and listen to the radio etc... I've been hearing a lot of the songs WE loved on my mp3 player... Is this coincidence or is he trying to tell me he's ok? Weird..! I know!

Update:

I have over 2,000 songs on the player and it's in shuffle... I've heard 2-3 songs in a row that WE used to listen to- almost 20 yrs. ago....

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Hello it seen`s like he still always loved you and he could never fore give himself for letting you go and yes he could be trying to get in touch with you to let you know that he never stopped loving you and is looking for your forgiveness so that he can rest in peace.

    your friend Brandy,

  • Kaffo
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Its more likely that you are seeing and hearing things that remind you of him.

    However, without getting all religious because I'm not sure what I believe in that area, you are not the first person that has felt this way. It would be great if it was him just letting you know that he is ok now.

    If it makes you happy, then you shouldn't question it. As they say "God works in mysterious ways".

  • 1 decade ago

    If you've got the songs on your mp3 I don't see how you find it weird that they play?

    You're just paying more attention to that stuff because your mind is thinking about it. Like when you learn a new word you always hear it.

  • Vee
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Wow, everyone here is stupid..YES, I think he could be contacting you through the music, I mean, three in a row? That can't just be a coincidence..

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  • 1 decade ago

    it's lovely to think that he maybe contacting you! my grandad passed and since his death my nan and my mum both have a visit from a Robin whenever they're in the garden! but who knows if it's actually him contacting you, nno onesstopping you believing it :)

  • 1 decade ago

    That's weird... just believe what your heart tells you.. no one can really say yes or no to that, I think you have to decide that if you want to or not.

    Source(s): my own knowledge
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    What ever it may be,just try to find the peace in it.

    I am sorry about your loss.

  • 1 decade ago

    It's YOUR mp3 player..I don't imagine you would put songs that you hate on it.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    stop being silly.You put the tunes on your player,not your ex I'm afraid,sorry!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    no if is on your mp3 player then you put it there, how is that weird?

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