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Is Virgo loneliness a myth or a reality?

I've read in a lot of places that Virgo is always somehow lonely. If you are a Virgo does this apply to you? If you know a Virgo, have they ever expressed to you that they always feel a sense of loneliness no matter what?

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    I know two single Virgo males- same birthdate and year. Which is pretty un-canny cos that doesn't happen often. The first I never knew on a personal level cos he lived further and came by often. second is pretty similar to the first- personality wise, when reading about their basic charts traits. Sometimes, I feel as if, they are the same person.

    Here's a slight generalized overview;

    - Both Virgo male suns, moons, etc.

    - Risings are un-known but first pulls off as Sag rising. Second comes off Libra rising.

    - Both have same temperament, basic Virgo personalities. They come off as shy to me cos they hardly talk but only breathe in my presense. lol.

    - Quiet, clean-freaks, stick to schedules types, hard-working and punctual-pretty anal about being late, both according to sources are talkative around others, lol, slim, health conscious, tall, rather good looking, feminine vibe, organized, friendly, private, down-to-earth, dress wonderfully and attractive to lots- I'm sure...

    - Oh, did I mention single? Both have no problems with being celibate.

    And another reason for the reason I know they are lonely is they drink. They love to party. Who knows if they go crazy with the girls at parties but I know they are eye-candy to the females though -thro word of mouth and yet don't have/keep gfs.

    Oh, and my reason for their loneliness is the drinking. They want the certain someone in their life but can't have it so they drink to pass the time or escape the feeling of being lonely. imo.

    So- reality is my answer from the ones I observed, cos they don't mind being single. Cos some prefer it that way so they have no problem with it, even if it comes off as being or seeming lonely to others.

    The first one told me he'd rather be single so this way he would have only himself to worry about and also he doesn't like having to answer to anybody, like he would if he had a mate. He preferred to come and go as he pleased. :/

    It was this very reason I choose not to date him when he asked me out.

    And the second one admitted it, that he does get lonely. :(

    Pisces :)

  • 5 years ago

    I am virgo and I feel no one will ever understand me. I have been mostly single because I was hurt so many times but there are so many who show interest but if I don't feel the connection I don't waste your time i tell you off but recently I met an Aquarius who totally gets me and we connected instantly,so I guess it all goes back to our Virgo personality traits that people can't put up with on the end either stay away or leave and for us its more about connecting with that one person who really gets us and is willing to put up with us we are also humans so this can happen to anyone so.yes its a myth

    We all have been lonely at some point so.the question shouldn't be to Virgos only

  • 5 years ago

    Im a virgo. I feel lonely. I would never admit this to anyone, at least not without brushing it off as a joke because I feel that no one can really understand me. When im around my friends, sometimes I stay very quiet with them despite being friends with them for a really long time because I feel like i dont fit in there. I guess everyone feels loneliness at some point in time but Virgos probably feels it more easily and often cause we are sensitive. Sensitive to the emotions of the people around us.

  • 1 decade ago

    My best friend is a male Virgo, and I believe he IS lonely, even though he would never admit it. He deliberately keeps people at a distance. I talk alot about my feelings to him, and always go to him for advice in times of need...and whenever I give him opporunity to open up, he doesn't. He says he prefers our friendship the way it is, with me being the one open about my feelings whilst he just advises. His personal life is kept very private, and he never really seems happy. He isn't really a relationship person, and he is devoted to his work. The only time he ever seems truly happy (rarely) is when he talks about the girl he loves...a girl who hurt him a few years back when he confessed his feelings to her and she got together with someone else, but he was still there for her as a friend. So maybe that's why he keeps people at a distance. But this guy is a typical Virgo.

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  • 5 years ago

    virgos are void, an empty space so vast even they cannot fathom it. initially they are not void of emotions but in time these emotions fades away in the great void. but anything that moves in the great void can be heard easily, even a faint heartbeat they would hear it. you can say virgos are very responsive to external stimuli, but clearly they have a tendency to ignore it. virgos understand human natures as if they see their reflections in the mirror, they realize how vague human life is, a bit inclined to nihilistic philosophies about life. their is no peace in their mind and heart. virgos are not unhappy folks either, they still have basic human natures that can learn to find happiness and joy. but they will be lonely in the end, they cannot escape this. virgo is less human and something else.

  • 7 years ago

    I'm a Virgo and I feel very lonely,I feel like no one gets me..I have known a few Virgos and they seem lonely and keep to themselves..

  • 6 years ago

    I am a Virgo and I would not consider myself to be lonely. I am very careful with whom I bring around me. Trust is everything and I find many people have ulterior motives to be my friend. In the past Ive found people want to be my friend for their own reasons so when I need them you have excuses. I am the one to dismiss a person in a heartbeat.

  • 4 years ago

    Because no one can understand me . I have friends but in my mind they just strangers 💔 I don't know why ...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i'm virgo~

    hmm,,,no... not really~not all virgos are lonely...it depends to someone and the way he/she interacts with people...

    to any one tht feels lonely,juz go and interacts with people!!!!!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    VIRGO'S ARE NOT LONELY

    IT'S JUST A MYTH

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