Well...theres this girl....?

Get to know them better. This is not a task only to be accomplished through dating. The more you get to know him or her, the more you can tell if you like them as a friend or something else. Just talk and do fun activities with the person.

Stop and consider why you like the person. There are many physically attractive and smart people out there. But if you see something beyond that really catches your attention, you've marked this person as unique and probably like them. Why else would they stand out from so many?

Consider how many times you think about the person. If you find yourself thinking about this person several times a day, and they are happy thoughts that possibly make your heart beat faster, then you probably like them.

Think how often you laugh at their jokes etc. When you like someone, you will find yourself laughing at things even if they aren't that funny. This is a natural attempt to make them feel appreciated.

If the one conversation between you and the person is stuck in you head and you cant stop telling people about it. this means it was important to you, and you probably like the person.

Consider how much you try to be near them. If you've planned your walking speed to catch a glimpse of them as many times of the day as possible, there is a good reason for that.

Think about how you feel if you touch him or her, by accident or on purpose. If you're still thinking about brushing shoulders several hours ago in school, then that is a special thought and you probably like them.

If you feel you're ready for a relationship, and are confident enough for a positive response, then just go ahead and ask them out. If you're unsure of their feelings for you, there are several wikihows on how to tell if someone likes you.

Okay, so when you texted her back to say that it was random and that you thought it would be "fun," you basically made it sound like you just wanted to get a group of friends together, or that you were just testing the waters to see if she would be available at some later point. So, what you should do(and I, as a high school girl, would appreciate) is try to find a time to ask her out for real this time. Now, the proper way to ask a girl to the movies as a date without sounding creepily formal is to say something along the lines of, "So, I was wondering if Saturday night you'd want to go see a movie with me... just the two of us?" and perhaps mentioning the movie that has recently come out that you know she wants to see. But remember, make sure to use a specific date, so that way she knows that this is a real date you're taking her on, not just some theoretical question you're asking. Also, it's best to do this kind of thing in person, so I would try to ask her out the next time you see her. Hope this helps!

P.S.- I'd be interested in getting a boy's perspective on a relationship question I have... Can you help me out? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aum9L... Thanks!