my husbands ex wife...?

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so i am pregnant with a girl and my husbands ex wife is also pregnant with a girl (5 weeks behind me). She absolutely HATES me and makes no secret of it... calls me a ***** and a whore, even told his parent that im addicted to a bunch of drugs and sleep around on him. I even had to change my cell phone number because she would randomly get mad and start harassing me. she hasnt been mean to me lately, but also hasnt been particularly nice. we just kind of ignore eachother. Then out of nowhere she buys my a cute pink baby blanket... not even a cheap-y one... like a really nice one! what the heck?!

Update:

im confused why "the man" was brought into this... he is a good person. we are pregnant by two different people, they were married long ago. i didnt even say anything about him. haha

Diane&#39;s Free to Breathe Again · Accepted Answer

Be the better "man" and do like the saying goes...."kill 'em with kindness".  Be more mature than his ex and have some self respect.  Never get in the mud with anyone....especially an ex.  Your husband will respect and love you more for it.  And girl, people are always going to talk about you......but it is what you believe about yourself that counts.  Your husband's ex is his ex for a reason......be the better wife by being the better wife, not the bitter wife.  Good luck

Juliane · Answer

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straycat · Answer

Well, if she only became this way while pregnant then maybe she becomes mean when pregnant.  
BUT-my question is:  "Why does your husband allow her to talk to you or about you this way?" " Why do his parents allow her   to say the things about you she says?  Why are these people not committed to YOU?" 
You need to have some expectations much above what she says but what is not said in your behalf.  Get it together and set some firm rules with your husband and his parents!  She is not their daughter in law-you are carrying his daughter and YOU must be treated with respect!

Liz · Answer

Don't let your guard down.She is up to something.Probably got the blanket as a gift from someone else & giving it to you for some sneaky devious plan of hers. Don't think for a second she bought it for you. Be very cautious.

Anamaria · Answer

Well...give her a chance ,say thank you for the gift and buy something for her child also .Who knows , being pregnant probably is making her a better person .

chill25 · Answer

Its either she drunk a drum of holy water or she is just really psychotic!  Dont fall into her trap.  Once a ***** always be a *****:)

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livinthegooodlife · Answer

wow why would you two let a man treat you like this?? thats sad....well now that you two are pregnant. just try to be the better person

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