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Boyfriend watches porn?

My boyfriend loves watching porn I didn't mind before but after the baby i dont hav the same body like those porn stars. I get so jealous I have asked him not to watch but he don't listens...I feel like during sex he thinks of all those porn stars in his head. I get so sad and extremely self sonscious I dont know what to do???

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I think porn is very disrespectful to a man's partner. Let him know how you feel about it.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Pretty much all men watch porn. It's not about comparing you to them. Any guy with half a brain knows that the women aren't real, and that what they have at home is 10 times better than the silicone-filled fakery in the movie.

    But if he DOES start hinting that he IS comparing you to them, tell him that you may not have the same body like those porn stars, but he sure as hell doesn't have the same dick like those porn stars, so that makes you pretty much even.

    That ought to shut him up.

  • 1 decade ago

    My body is no where near great and it is not because I had my fiance's child, I had my ex-husbands and my children. My fiance watches porn and has since before we met, I had seen it before. It doesn't bother me and don't let it bother you. If you let it bother you that kind of crazy jealousy can and will ruin your relationship.

    Next thing, you may think not you but, you will be jealous of his friends.

    I know, I've been there

    Good Luck

  • 1 decade ago

    Well if he's constantly doing it and replaces porn with your sex life then there's a problem you need to address.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Oh stop bellyaching. It's porn. It's not real. Men know their wives aren't perfect. But he should respect your feelings and do something to reassure you. If he ever compares you to the porn girls, then you should watch Mandingo and complain that he's not ripped or as well-endowed as that guy. That will shut him up. Or just watch Mandingo. My wife does. ;-) shhhhh don't tell anybody.

  • 1 decade ago

    For my home porn is never okay, but if you started by watching it then I think you created that animal on your own. I think you need to either grow confidence or discuss it with your partner and define what it is that bothers you and what his feelings are.

  • 1 decade ago

    i would rather my boyfriend watch porn then go out there and cheat on me?

    Watch it with him you might enjoy it?

  • 1 decade ago

    men watch porn no matter what. there nothing you can do about it. Ikey I'm lying I destroy my husband dvds and delete his videos. I add gay porn or pics to his stuff.to **** with him lol I watch it with him and I get him jealous most of the time. cuz I say " that guy has a bigger dick" or "I wish that was me with that guy" lol I get him mad and kills his mood for XXX.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Stop being ugly.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i feel the same way, each time my husband watches a beautiful women with a nice body i feel he desirs her :( although i'm pretty,

    i hate the way i think but what to do it is our nature '' women''

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