15 Weeks Pregnant, heartbroken and just need advice. (Could really use the support) What should I do?

Awww this is such a sad story! I really feel for you hun. Although I am not pregnant I have a similar situation myself with an ex that I really really love and have known him 4 years was with him for 2 and he is always in and out of my life when he breaks up with his gfs he comes running to me and then gets another one and I get a load of abuse from her. I really dont know how to stop myself from being so stupid as to let him back in my life all the time. But the only advice that I can give you is to be strong for your baby. You will have a perfect little child that you can give all your love and attention. Email me if you wanna chat a bit more as I have already written you a big long answer. But stay strong and keep smiling xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

First id like to say if you need anyone for support you can always email me. I will listen and offer suggestions. Its not easy, u already know this. I had a similar situation with my sons father, and no matter how many times you tell your self it over, and ur never letting him back in you still seem to do it. Its not because you are weak, its because you have a heart. What you need to remind your self over and over again is he WILL not change for you(this is the way he is), and by putting your self back in the situation you are only making the grieving and healing process longer for yourself. This is only a very small section of your life, as it may seem horrible, long and almost impossible to get thru now, in a couple years you will be looking at it completely different. You deserve to be happy, and nothing but. You deserve for your child to be happy also, just because he is the father does not mean it will help you or your child to have him around. I could go on alot more, email if you would like to chat.

I am 25 and pregnant. After 2 years of being with my ex he left us because he did not want children right now. He was and is an a$$ about everything. He did not cheat, that I know of, but he hurt me a lot... I was really depressed at the beginning of my pregnancy because I was so hurt. I am now 36 weeks tomorrow and I am really happy. I find that when I have to talk to him or something I get depressed but when we have no contact I am really happy. Your ex is no good. As hard as it is... you just have to stop. Do not call him, talk to him, text him, email him... It only makes it so much harder. No matter what he says he obviously is a liar. He seems to talk out of both sides of his mouth. Trust me pregnancy is hard enough with out a horrible ex to deal with as well. I am to the point that I am so happy I have my daughter that he does not matter anymore. I am only grateful that he helped me create my daughter... other than that he is worthless. I know that sounds mean but it's true. I have given him the benefit of the doubt multiple times and yet I still seem to get hurt. i remember how hard it was that early on, because you cannot feel the baby move and being pregnant is still surreal. When you get further along and feel the baby everyday, basically all the time, you forget about everything else. I was so there. I thought something was wrong with me because I missed my ex so much even though he had been horrible. Then as my little girl started to grow... the connection I had with her was just so great he kind of disappeared! Just stay strong and remember that there are plenty of Proud Single Mommies out here! As tough as it may be, it is totally worth it! Hang in there! :)

i feel so bad for what this guy has put you through,but now you have this little angel inside of you and he/she will have all of your thoughts and attention to.you only got a few more weeks to go so that you may find out what you will be having,you can always start shopping for your baby even if it is small things and neutral until you find out that should help you a little,all i can tell you is i kind of know what you are going through because i would always hear the same story from my sister in law about how she loved this guy,one night he would come home another night he wouldn't,how she would find out that he was seeing some one else,and he would just take all his things and leave and not give her any explanations and when he felt like coming back he would do it because he knew she would take him back.i always told her that she needed to leave him for good and not keep taking this stuff from him and that she needed to do it for her own good and her daughter,this kept happening for years until one day that he left she would cry,and call but during that time she met this other guy they became friends next thing you know she is now married to him to happy and regrets how much she had to put up with the other guy for so long.all i can say now it will hurt he may come back begging you to take him back,and saying he will change but believe me he will not you need to be strong move on and you will be fine without him just you and your baby thats all that matters

First off have you been checked for STD's? If he is sleeping around I would be sure you are checked (most OB's will do this anyways, but in case yours hasnt yet...) Secondly, be thankful he is not going to be in your life. You have a child to think about now and they need a stable invironment, not a idiot running into and out of its life whenever mommy has a weak moment. I am not trying to sound rude, but I have been with guys before who were not worth my time and I know how hard it is to say no, but you need to do it for the baby. Drop the loser now and let him have his 6 other girlfriends. Let the girls harassing you know he is all theirs. You can do this yourself. You dont need this guy to be a strong person and a great mother. Just let him go and try and move on. Dont answer his calls, refuse to see him and just cut him right out. Good luck and take care of yourself. I'm 15 weeks pregnant too!

Oh sweetheart im so sorry!

I wish i could give you a big cuddle and just tell you everythings going to be fine!.

We all have bad stuff happen to us it happens for a reason.

You have a wonderful, beautiful new life growing inside you, you are NOT ruined goods!!!.

My sister fell pregnant when she 17, her boyfriend made her all this wild promises but when she was about 5 months, she found out that when he came over to hers his other girl was waiting for him outside in the car.

To cut a long story short she slept with him again after their daughter was born but he wasn't interested in the baby,now her daughter is 7 years old she has a fiance and a 3 year old son and she's very happy.

Fact is you need to cut this guy out of your life for good, only contact him in regards to your child.

You WILL meet a man who will love you and be faithfull one day that i can promise!!

Don't let this ruin your life concentrate on the positive things, no one is dying, it's not your fault he's a physiological mess and can't be honest with himself or anyone else.....pity him!.

Good luck xxx

Hunny I know this can be hard. Especially being pregnant. You have a child to think about now though and you dont want all of that drama in your life. You need to seperate yourself from him and all of those girls too. You can not possibly love someone that does all of these things to you. It is more that you are used to him and don't know how to live your life anymore without him. What he is doing and what the other girls are doing is so petty and immature. You are going to be a mother now. You need to step above that and move on to the next stage in your life. Try surrounding yourself with new people. I wish you the best!

You need self esteem and self worth. Allowing a guy to hurt you over and over and use you and then to believe his lies when he says your the only one. It will take time but after all he has done to you it shouldn't hurt for too long. You deserve so much better.

I had a baby with my ex and I was not damaged goods. I found another few boyfriends and then met my husband. There are guys that will love you and your baby and not cheat or hurt you in any way. You have to work on yourself before you can have a really healthy relationship.

Aye yi yi, I feel for you. That is horrible. What I think you should do is try to move on. It's hard but your baby needs you. When you are stressed, your baby feels it. He's obviously not worried about your feelings and will only keep coming back and using you if you let him. Stay strong and hang in there. Don't give into him and let him know enough is enough. Let the other girl deal with his drama. She sounds like she likes drama. Actually you should feel sorry for her. If you go through with it and stay away from him, she's going to be the one worried about what he's doing behind her back while you went on your way and live your life without him.

im also 18 and pregnant, i would leave him have nothing to do with him so you can have a happy pregnancy and do things your way, if you don't already since your not that far along i'd look for a job or something to take up time so i have less time to deal with him and his 10 other women, your probably still feeling attached to him cuz its his baby in you and a small connection will always be there but the feelings for him will fade once you realize how much happier and better off you will be with out him