How do common women deal with a boring marriage? I've been married 1 month and am already bored to tears...?

I have the same problem. I'm so much better than everyone else, these peasants bore me.

I realize that the wedding itself seems like the most exciting part of marriage, but really the joint account is. You'll find new and interesting ways to spend your husband's money before long.

Also, interview carefully for the new pool boy/lawn boy. This can make a huge difference in your satisfaction.

Cheer up, you'll always have the chance to upgrade to a richer husband later, and have an even grander wedding.

Lol this has to be fake. a person as self centered, concieded, ego centric, and very spoiled as you has probably never seen antype of hardship in their life. You live in fantasy land. What exactly do you contribute to this marriage besides the fact that you think that your looks is all that is needed?? I mean seriously Your head is so far up your own ****. Your far from a REAL woman. A REAL women doesnt take advantage of their husband or look down upon everyone else around them. I feel bad because your obviously a terrible person.Time to grow up and land back on planet earth. Marriage is a partnership with someone you love and would do anything for. not a meal ticket....b**ch

Princess, you're spending too much thinking about others, doing things for others and not thinking about your needs.

Who's thinking about YOUR needs?

It's time now for you to have a little "Me time".

Tell your husband that you'll be gone for a few weeks, there's a loaf in the pantry and something or other in the oven.

Take a trip to somewhere nice—The Hamptons? Get manicures, pedicures, Facials and massages.

Take a lover.

Think about yourself for a change. Be indulgent.

And when you came back, bring that lover with you - or two.

Your husband will enjoy having someone to play golf with.

Tell your husband you're doing this for him too. He'll understand.

I did.

Firstly, March wasn't a month ago. Secondly, you're unemployed but looking for an "extravagant lifestyle"? charity is "just so beneath" you? Stop being a selfish prick and make something out of yourself so you won't be bored. You're just a leach who uses her looks to manipulate men so that you can have whatever you want.

ans to support your lifestyle financially, I see no other way in which he could be better suited.

Some of us gals at the country club like to have a little fun with a game we like to call "Screw Him"...charmingly crude, isn't it?

Basically what you do is, hire as many male "hands" around the house as you can using your husband's money and see how long it takes and how many lovers you can obtain before he realizes he has been funding your adultery. Of course no one has been caught yet...or if they have, their husbands are far too concerned with their mistresses to dare question their wives' motives!

Well if your husband has the means to support your lifestyle financially, I see no other way in which he could be better suited.

Some of us gals at the country club like to have a little fun with a game we like to call "Screw Him"...charmingly crude, isn't it?

Basically what you do is, hire as many male "hands" around the house as you can using your husband's money and see how long it takes and how many lovers you can obtain before he realizes he has been funding your adultery. Of course no one has been caught yet...or if they have, their husbands are far too concerned with their mistresses to dare question their wives' motives!

Oh well....tally ho, ol' girl!

Edit: In case you were wondering, my dear friend Mrs. Winifred Bobblebottom is currently topping the list with 37 male hands "servicing" her while her husband is away on his various endeavors...Insisting an in-house OB/GYN was a requirement for those in good societal standing was simply genius on her part.

You sound like you were more focused on the wedding rather than the actual marriage.

By the way hun, nothing is beneath you. Would you want God to tell you that when you are judged? No one on this earth is even worthy of being in heaven that is why we are all here to prove ourselves to God.

If your husband left you today what can you really say you have done for yourself.

You need a lesson in humility and if you are that well off financially you should focus on the reason God put us here and serve others.

Marriage is easy-You get out of it what you put into it. You should be way more concerned about what you can do for him than what's in it for you. He probably really loves you and you are going to crush him.

Most common women have to just make the best of a bad lot, Tec.

However for posh totty, like you and I, there is a much happier option which is to divorce the old ball and chain when he starts to become tedious and move on to the next bit of rich eligible stuff.

Works for me.

Have your marriage annulled and go to Vegas and marry yourself. You really have no room for anyone in that ego of yours but yourself. Begin to think of what you would be without your husbands money and appreciate what you have in him, the future hes providing for you and the blessing you have in being able to help others who don't have all your opportunities. To be happy first you be must able to recognize and appreciate, so far honey, you're a divorce waiting to happen. You will not be satisfied unless you get an attitude change. Learn to appreciate.

First off i think you are full of your self half of that was about how good you look. So maybe you need to get over that. And i would not find a lover. That would be wrong! Why are you to good to run a Charity? Maybe you need to talk to your husband and tell him you want a night life. And go out more. Call some of your friends yup and if you have so much money so shopping. Find a hobby like scrap booking or something.