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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

Question for guys, if its been 5 days since last contact?

Do you think he's fading? I havent heard from him in 5 days...I havent called either, but I should.

Anyway, do you think he's fading? He's in grad school and in finals.

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  • 1 decade ago

    It depends...but in my opinion he should have at least called to clarify the situation. Maybe he's busy with his finals, or preoccupied with something. Or maybe he expect you to call him. Either way 5 days is a bit worrying. I just came out of a similar situation. I got rejected by this girl I like and she proposed to remain friends. A couple of days later any attempt to communicate with her failed, she simply ignored me. At one point I started ignoring back. It's almost 2 month now and finally she explained that she thought I needed space to get over her. And then she blamed me I ignored her. So I ignored her because she ignored me and she ignored me because I ignored her, which basically means we ignored eachother for no reason whatsoever. My only advice in your situation is to try and contact him. A small discussion of 5-10 minutes could clarify the situation. And yes he maybe fading and not being very good about it.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I think its going the same way most relationships go when your young. "though saying that i dont know you". But we all have those romances when were young and its nothing more than puppy love. Hes probably out enjoying himself and meeting new people, its only natural. Let him go, and get on with your life and soon you will meet the one for you. And if two people can go 5 days without contact, im sorry, its over, this is not what your looking for and you deserve more, "forget it m8". but if your sad, my old motto goes "dont cry cos its over, smile cos it happened"..

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Sounds like fading. I may go a weekend without calling my gf but thats about it.

  • 1 decade ago

    Steven I believe the quote you are refering to is a Dr. Suess, and should not be credited to you.

    "Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened" by Dr. Suess

    And it's probably over hun, meet new people and enjoy life...you'll find that "guy for you" someday.(:

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  • 1 decade ago

    hey

    I think you should call him may be he is busy or may be he not feeling good, or may be there is a misunderstanding from your last meeting, so call him and find out if there is anything missing from his side forgive him and give him a chance..

  • 1 decade ago

    As for me i believe that TIME has an answer to every question. Therefore it's too early to give a conclution...

    But i'll advice you to call him....

  • 1 decade ago

    what do you mean fading if you mean ignoring you probably not just busy with school.

  • 1 decade ago

    Take time to think and then do your best. Hoping for the best!

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    you don't understand guys~in guy time this is only a day~~but girls think five days is an eternity for waiting on a guy

  • Lisa
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    I suggest you wait and see. If he is doing exams he has more on his mind at this time.

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