Ramadan: Boys Problem, for boys only?

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I had face the same problem in past.

well you should do the following below tips, it works for me

don't sleep immediately after dinner.

keep yourself busy in exercises and in sports activity.

don't drink too much water before go to bed.

wear kinda loose night dress, fitted dress is one of the big reason of that problem.

and last of the all, stop thinking about opposite gender, I know it is hard in this age, but you should try it boy.

As the men you asked explained to you, this happens to every boy and is normal. You should be worried if this is not happening. Set your alarm to get up earlier and shower. No big deal. Accept your biology instead of attempting to suppress it to dangerous levels. And unless you get married or turn to masturbation, it will continue beyond 21 and 22. Men in their 30s, 40s and 50s wake up with wet dreams, sometimes even when they are married and having sex regularly. Don't be fooled into not understanding and not accepting the biology Allah gave you. You have to deal with it and there is no need to feel ashamed or embarassed.

Assalaamu alaykum brother

the best answer i think is go to sleep early, wake up early, make ghusl if required :) , then read some Qur'aan or revise school/uni work, etc... This way, if you do this regularly, not only will you be able to do tahajjud insha'allaah and read Qur'aan and study when fresh, you will also be able to hide this issue quite well..

The benefits are all around and all praise belongs to Allaah subhanahu wa ta'ala.

Alalahualam wassalaamualaykum

wa alaykom salam wa rahmato LLAH wa barakatoh

Coping with wet dreams: http://www.islam-qa.com/en/ref/9208

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i read that u should:

1-sleep early

2-dont eat too much before sleeping

3-dont watch anything nor think at all about sex, or women or etc...that make the guy think about it, so u later dont dream about it.

4-do wudu before sleeping.

well thats all i remember from what i read.

PS: read whats in the link, u will feel better in sha'aa LLAH.

salam.

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@asker: DONT EVER listen to what ayatollah said..masturbation is a sin so dont do what she said.

salam.

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@ayatollah: DELETE UR ANSWER plz.

walaikum as salam brother,

brother it happens in this age, but you are feeling guilty of it, it is a very good sign.

follow the Sunnat of sleeping Inshallah the problem may reduce, that is,

do wadu before sleeping and sit on your bed and recite Tasbih E Fatimah once (i.e, Subhanallah 33 times, Alhamdullilah 33 times and Allahuakbar 34 times) and then recite Ieyatul Kursi once, then Surah Nas, Surah Falaq and Surah Iqlaas, all this Surahs three times and then Kalima once and then go for sleep Insha allah you will not face any problem.

May Allah have mercy on you, me and all of the Muslim Ummah and give the knowledge of Islam.

thanking you,

As salam.

Say:

Alhamdoelilah, Allah(swt) has not made me impotent.

Say:

Alhamdoelilah, Allah(swt) has given me clean water to purify myself when I need to.

Say:

Alhamdoelilah, Allah(swt) has woken me up for Fajr and has not made me sleep through.

Say

Alhamdoelilah, Allah(swt) has given me parents and family that understand that I am becoming a man.

Be grateful for what you have, and stop complaining over silly things like being unclean in the morning and needing to shower.

If Allah(swt) has given the believer something and the believer is grateful Allah(swt) will give him even more.

Allah(swt) is the Most Forgiving, Most Merciful.

Most of the Brothers have given good advice-

don't listen to Ayatullah! what she said is a sin!

May Allah accept your efforts, and give you patience.

You should wash before praying

We are all over these things and we Ngtzl before the prayer as long as there is water available

I'm not sure what the Arabic means, but I infer you're talking about nocturnal emissions, AKA wet dreams. They're normal for teenage boys. The only way to stop them is by regular ejaculation, either through sex or masturbation. One could wait years for your testosterone levels to decrease, but that would be highly unpleasant.

If your religious beliefs prohibit spanking the monkey, straining to lift something immovable is a semi-reliable treatment for blue balls.

First of all, Im a girl..dont be ashamed. :)

First of all, when you sleep, read all your duas..and read Auzubillahi Minnashaitaan ir Rajim. That will keep Shaitan away, Inshallah.

and stop thinking about Sex..