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Is this normal ? ? ?
One of my girlfriends isn't sure about a new behavior in her husband. He has recently taken to having sex with her after she has fallen asleep. She is a very sound sleeper and so doesn't wake up. He always tells her in the morning that he did it, but it still seems a little strange. They are trying to have a baby, so she's not worried about getting pregnant or anything like that, she just doesn't know if this is just a phase or something to worry about.
Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks.
7 Answers
- BillLv 51 decade agoFavorite Answer
Definitely strange, may be he wants to feel in control and that's the only way he gets it meaning the control.
- 1 decade ago
Lol, my hubby did this to me a couple times but I was passed out drunk. I really didn't think anything of it because we do it alot when I'm awake too! It could be a fetish thing. The only thing to watch out for is if he ONLY wants to do it while she's asleep, that could mean there's some abnormal psychology stuff going on....Ted Bundy type of ****! On the other hand, he does tell her about it so it's not like he's trying to get away with something without her knowing. She should just ask him why he does it.
- 1 decade ago
I think a lot of men may try this I remember the first year my husband and I were together he tried this but I minded very much so when I caught him I freaked out and he never did it again. so if your friend does not mind it and it does not become a problem go with it.Best of luck.
- 1 decade ago
It's probably some kind of weird fettish or something. I think about doing it sometimes, but I never have. I think it's normal. As long as he's not sneaking out and having sex with other women while she's asleep...
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- 1 decade ago
The only thing that comes to mind is never let him get a job in a morgue. Oh not a good image.
- DudeLv 51 decade ago
Well, he's working towards their ultimate goal. But, either way she must be a really sound sleeper or he's not that good.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I don;t think its weird because I've heard of it before. Its just a fetish...if she's fine with it...let him have his fun...its not that big a deal...its still just sex
