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I dont understand this anymore, can someone pls explain??
I have been going out with this guy for more than 2 months now. we re not teenager, mid twenties and early 30's. I do like him a lot, and we spend some time together, maybe twice or thrice on week days (mostly week days).
But ive noticed he preferred spending the weekends with his friends(guys, some of them have gfs). if he's not surfing on the weekend, he's hanging with friends.
what i dont understand is why he doesnt invite me along to join in??? I dont get this. He will spend friday and saturday nights with them, and then start calling me up on sunday afternoon to catch up! we have a great relationship, and I dont want to force myself to join in without invitation.
I have my own friends and life, but shouldnt a couple have some weekends together sometimes???
Also why he doesnt even think about us planning one weekend to spend together without friends, why does all his weekends with friends and he doesnt include me? I'm on the verge of breaking up cause I am not comfortable with this kind of relationship. He's not a young guy so I shouldnt start telling him what to do and what not.
pls what do you advice???
5 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
First relax. I think you might be used to guys revolving their lives around you. As you may have noticed, this makes them obssessed since you are all they know.
He simply wants his own space, to hang out with his friends and traditionally, weekends might just be the best time to hang out with them. This really isnt a big deal, but you may wanna ask if he wants to do something together in the weekend. If he says hes going out with the buddies, ask them if theres any weekend you two could spend together.
Again this isnt a big deal, its just a guy that knows when to hang out with his gf and when to hang out with the buds. Them having gfs or not is irrelevant.
- 1 decade ago
You're right that you shouldn't start telling him what to do- whether he is a young guy or not but I can see why it is hurtful and a bit odd that he doesn't want to spend a weekend together. The only thing to do is ask him to something that you want to do at the weekend. If he says no, then it is time for a serious discussion about whether he has the time or space for a girlfriend in his life right now.
- 1 decade ago
You could plan a weekend with him and see his response. Probably you may get answer to why he don`t want to spend weekends with you!
- YMpromptuLv 41 decade ago
candidly ask him if he's ever thought about spending time with you on weekends. try to understand where he's coming from, maybe you have unexpressed expectations which you need to get across. good luck
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- 1 decade ago
sounds to me like he is two timing you or he is embarrassed to take you out with his friends. you should confront him about it. if it is bothering you that much he should understand otherwise he isnt the guy for you.
