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My boyfriend has no common sense!?

ZERO. None. He leaves me presents in public bathrooms- they're stolen. He takes the fan out of the window as I fall asleep and DROPS IT ON MY PLANTS :( I mention slightly wanting to play a LAN (video gaming) party, and so he takes out both my computers, their external hard drives, the testy switch for both of them- and brings all of this to my best friend's place. She has a LAPTOP. It takes like 40 mintues to move all of that, and he could have just asked her to come over with her laptop -_-;

How can he gain common sense?

Update:

I have talk to him, conversations go like this. "Uuuugh... it got stolen???" "Ughhhh, why did you put it in a public place like that? My work's public bathrooms is a bad idea." "No,I thought it threw" " No you didn't." "Yes I did." "Obviously not or your present would be in my hands right now." " ...... ??" "I don't even use that bathroom!" "bah... I'm dumb." "Yes, Yes you are, go find it!!"

Update 2:

I have talk to him, conversations go like this. "Uuuugh... it got stolen???" "Ughhhh, why did you put it in a public place like that? My work's public bathrooms is a bad idea." "No,I thought it threw" " No you didn't." "Yes I did." "Obviously not or your present would be in my hands right now." " ...... ??" "I don't even use that bathroom!" "bah... I'm dumb." "Yes, Yes you are, go find it!!"

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  • 1 decade ago
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    lol....TALK TO HIM... He seems like he wants to do the right thing, but don't know how..

  • 1 decade ago

    Sometimes common sense is hard to come by. I feel bad for your b/f, maybe he is trying too hard to impress someone that cannot be impressed. Are you too hard on him? It might be that you are just miss communicating with him. The gifts in the public bathrooms, I don't know how to fix that one, he should have just known that it would get stolen, and what is he doing in a women's public bathroom. But about the LAN party, maybe you should have explained to him that your friend has a laptop and she would be the one providing the computer. You can't expect him to be a mind reader, so you have to give him details when you are making party plans. How was he to know that your friend was going to bring the PC. Just try to explain things to him in more detail, you can't expect him to think the exact same way that you do. Remember why you fell in love with him, those stupid little things that he does now that annoy you, would be the things that you would miss if he were ever not there. Just try to have more patients with him. I really wish you luck on this one....

  • 1 decade ago

    I don't think he lacks common sense, just respect for you. It doesn't sound like he cares about your feelings much. If he gives you stolen plants and takes your things without asking, maybe you should ask yourself why you're with someone that has no consideration for you. He's not going to change, so if you can put up with his behavior, more power to you. If you hope and pray he'll change, you're better off just moving on.

  • 1 decade ago

    You can't gain common sense. Hey at least he gives you gifts - stolen or not. He is trying at least. You need to cut him some slack. Instead of letting him fail try to be more specific about what you want. He may be a klutz but at least he is a well intentioned klutz

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Oh gosh...

    Tell him to use his common sense and think stuff through!

    Make sure he TALKS TO YOU before taking action in one of his ideas!

    If he's that much of an unsmart person, dump him, maybe?

  • 1 decade ago

    Perhaps your are stupid and weak for not ending the relationship.

    I do not mean to insult you but I am paying the price for not ending a relationship with someone who turned out to be a flake, crook, and liar,

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    They have replacements. Just find another bf. You should not live with someone that you can not talk to. He seems hopeless, Forget him and move on.

  • 1 decade ago

    it sounds like he's trying to please you so you can have your own equipment to play video games but he dosent really know what he's doing. if its annoying i suggest you talk to him and if he dosent change then i suggest you find another boyfriend. and the whole present thing.. yeah he probably didnt even have a present.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    He just sounds like he doesn't think before he does stuff.

    That is something you are going to have to live with if you choose to stay with him.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Throw him through a lawn mower. Then throw what's left in a lake. Sorry you're out of luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    If he doesnt have it now he's never going to have it. I would say dump the "no common sence having- loser" and find someone else who has it. Its only going to get worse if you stay with him.

    Source(s): Been there, done that! This guy with no common sence ruined my life! I had to get away from that!
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