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Need baby shower alternatives.?

My step-daughter is pregnant expected to deliver in late September. Her mom is having a baby shower for her. Step-daughters mom & dad's family does not get along very well. So we are looking for some unique ideas as a baby shower alternative to help welcome the new baby to the world. We kinda figure since her mom is giving the shower already and has been buying baby supplies that another shower may be too much. Has anyone done something really kewl before as an alternative to the baby shower? Involving new baby's dad is an option as well. Suggestions? Ideas?

Mary in Camden, MI

Update:

I love some of the ideas so far. I love the BBQ with baby back ribs, baby carrots & such. I love the piggy bank and wish idea. Keep responding folks because I am still reading. ;-)

Update 2:

My step-daughter is a beautiful very smart almost 21 year old young woman and the baby's dad IS involved! My step-daughter works and attends college. She is far from an irresponsible teenage kid that has no clue.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Plenty of people have multiple baby showers because of reasons like that, I just thought I'd throw that out there first.

    Secondly, you can always have a BBQ or a picnic or just a pot luck dinner and make it baby themed. Not really a typical baby shower, but you could find some creative idea's to throw in with it. Like, make some food that sounds or looks baby themed or something. I'm assuming its co-ed, you mentioned babies dad coming. That way the men there would be more comfortable, they could take care of the meat or whatever. You know men and meat... haha.

    Edited to add for the first reply: She said he IS an option...

  • 1 decade ago

    How bout a family bbq? It is a great time of year for one, summer time. It can be like baby shower with out all the fancy decorations and stress. Just sit back relax enjoy the outside with family. Maybe have a few small baby shower games, and a cake for dessert.

    Good Luck!

    Source(s): Mommy of 3 and #4 due 12*29*09
  • 1 decade ago

    Get together with friends Female and Male along with your step daughter and husband. make some dinner and play some games were you can give them advice for them and the newborn.

    You can also throw a babyshower its never too much. maybe do it different. For example ask her what she still needs and make a list play game have guest bring a item that she still needs, play a raffle. I dont know. Just come up with new stuff.

    Or have a Baby shower with females and males. (friends) play games buy a piggy bank and have everyone insert some coins and while they are doing that they came make a wish for the baby and give suggestions to parents.

  • 1 decade ago

    I would definitely come up with a "Welcome Baby" party, you can schedule it for after the baby comes, they're still standard to bring/give gifts for mommy and baby, and you'll know then what she still needs or could use....like diapers, wipes, or even just cards with gift certificates so she can buy clothing when the baby grows out of what was given at the shower.

    Good luck and congrats!!

    Source(s): 36 weeks (tomorrow) with #3
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    4 years ago

    i did no longer have a sprint one bathe and persons nevertheless sent presents to me. i became into interior the middle of a flow so it wasn't fairly a possibility. i do no longer possibly think of that is correct to anticipate presents whilst no bathe is thrown however. as a replace of a sprint one bathe only have a huge social gathering, invite every physique you elect for to friends or relatives, grill some burgers and only communicate with anybody...and in case you get presents, you get presents. a sprint one bathe would not must be all approximately enjoying goofy video games. I do think of that is totally impolite to have this "un-bathe" only think of approximately it: costly buddy, i'm no longer having a sprint one bathe yet i might like some presents because of the fact i choose for issues for the hot toddler so ought to you please deliver me something? thank you-

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    My family is waiting till after my son is born to have our "baby party" so that we don't have to deal with the tons of people just randomly showing up at the house at random days.

    we are buying sharpies and paint and letting people decorate Onzies that Ryan will wear as he grows. we get the use out of the onzies and it entertains all ages to do it.

    you can ask your OB about what she thinks the baby will weight at birth and get onzies of lots of sizes so that your family sees the use of them all.

  • You should have a diaper party instead with your family. You can never have enough diapers and that is one way for her to be stocked up on them.

    Best of luck!

    27w 4d pregnant with a precious baby girl!

  • gift bags would be a start ;)

    make sure there's some upbeat music to put everyone in a good mood

    maybe by a beach? some relaxing ENVIRONMENT

    environment is key

  • 1 decade ago

    a bbq would be good. maybe serve food like baby carrots, baby back ribs, exc..

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    what kind of family is this?!

    The baby;s father is not a option, um why??? he does need to be a part of this childs life.'

    I am sick of rotten people like u and the heap of 14 year old girls pregnant on this yahoo answers!!'

    Babies should and must have mum and dad.

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