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i totally agree with this, ladies this is for you from us guys?

Dear Girls (from us guys)...

*Don't assume that guys won't care where you are, because we do.

It makes us feel secure to know that our girlfriends aren't off flirting with guys we've never heard of.

*Also, don't talk about your ex-boyfriends.

We never have, nor ever will respect or like them, nor do we want to hear about them.

When you do, you're asking your boyfriend to be jealous.

You're asking your boyfriend to lose trust.

*On that, don't hump everything that walks into the room.

We don't care if you talk to other guys.

We don't care if you're friends with other guys.

But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off.

It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there.

*Also, when we tell you you're pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/ cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it.

Don't tell us we're wrong.

We'll stop trying to convince you.

The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence.

Yeah, you can quote me.

*Don't be mad when we hold the door open.

Smile and say "thank you."

Let us pay for you.

Don't "feel bad."

We enjoy doing it.

It's expected.

Smile and say - everybody together now - "thank you."

*Kiss us when no one's watching.

If you kiss us when you know nobody's looking we'll be more impressed.

*You don't have to get dressed up for us.

If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have, put on every kind of makeup you own.

We like you for WHO you are and not WHAT you are.

*Don't flirt with guys when we're not around.

We'll find out. Trust us.

We have eyes everywhere.

And when we find out, we're pissed.

Not necessarily with the guys you flirted with, more-so with you.

*Don't take everything we say seriously.

Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it.

Don't get angry easily.

Stop using magazines/media as your bible.

*Don't talk about how hot Tom Cruise or Brad Pitt is in front of us.

It's boring, and we don't care.

You have girlfriends for that.

*Whatever happened to the word "handsome"?

Why does everything have to be "hot/sexy"?

I'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with "Hey handsome!" instead of "Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy" or whatever else you can think of.

Claiming girls or guys to be "hot" shows immaturity.

**Girls, I cannot stress this enough: if you aren't being treated right by a guy, don't wait for him to change.

Ditch his sorry, disgrace-to-the-male-population ***, and find someone who will treat you with utter respect.

Someone who will honor your morals.

Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Thank you for your information... I guess some guys really mean what they say when they say it.. I'm shy & I never flirt with guys first, but I've seen guys get mad at me because other guys flirt with me (I didn't even flirt with them) why? jealousy?? I love it when guys open the door for me, they seem very kind, I don't feel bad at all! I feel bad when some don't, they seem rude! I don't dress to impress anyone, I dress according to my mood & taste & for the occasion. I don't like Tom Cruise nor Brad Pitt.. no thanks

  • 1 decade ago

    All those points are very true, and it makes me understand why guys act the way they do.

    Thank you so much for putting this out there, that was nice of you to do!

    Gives us girls, a whole different perspective on guys that we never knew before.

  • 1 decade ago

    Aww!! Sweet as a LEMON!!!

    r u in the middle of writing a new updated version of the 'magazine bible'??

    nah but really - good start Handsome!

    Source(s): ;-) thank u!
  • awww how sweet you sound like a good guy ive always wondered that... why are people so immiture it bugs the crap out of me. you can still be together because you love each other but you shuldnt do it just to have a sex buddie or something like that...

    thanks you make me feel like a person instead of like the last peice of meat at the grocery store that will eventually get old and youll have to throw it away!!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    awwwe:) thank you! I know guys out there are like that but I wish they all were. I have a hard time reading guys so this deffinetly helped!

    thanks so much!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Hi handsome!!

    loll Thankss that's usefull =P

  • 1 decade ago

    Awwww thats really sweet!!

    Seriously i love it!

    Everything you said was soooo true!

  • 1 decade ago

    well omg dam every thing that yu want in a girl .......................................................thats me im serious i hate when people (girls) pretend that they are ready for a comitted relation ship and it turnes out that theyer off flirting wit sum guy just wen yu finnaly gained confidence in them and then they backstabbyu right in da back and dont even mean wen they say sorry,it gets me so mad ,i hate 2 talk about guys in school or chris brown in front of my boyfriend or my ex cuz its not about them its about us and it shouldent matter what they think.i dont call a gut hot ,cute or anything i say omg yur gorgeous and somtimes handsome 2 tell the truth i thoought i was weird 4 sayin dat o by the way trully sorry 4 makin yu read all dis crap really sorry

    but yu can email me at lildd84@yahoo.com

    btw my name is daniela

    *LoOkIn 4 DaT MaN*

  • Luna
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Love it :0)

    That was so sweet, and I couldn't agree more!!

    If only more guys were like you

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    this is nice johnny :)

    and thankyou for the answer on my question!

    if you want you can add me and we can talk.

    itd be interesting to get to know you better!

    thanks!

    *Kourtney Jennifer Charlton.

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