I need some help/advice please.?

Here is a question for all you girls. Im sorry if tmi!

came off depo because it did all sorts of nasty things to me and last jab was 9mnths ago!! i have been spotting and bleeding for 3mnths now. THREE. without stop. without any hint it will stop anytime soon.

My romantic life is pretty much ruined as i dont feel attractive and often when we do the dirty is just makes me bleed even more so now i am even going off ***

my poor husband i dont think he quite knows what to do with himself. we chose not to let a little blood bother us in the beginning when we realised it wasn't letting up. (its not heavy but its def there) but its bothering me therefor us now.

do i go to the docs? and risk being put on more drugs that could screw me further or do i ride it out? its often accompanied by cramps and i see clots quite frequently. the cramps can be anything for sore lower back to excruciating knife pains

thanks