????? To let my mom spoil our kids?

its grandma and that's what shes going to do! you cant change her and even though they are your kids she is still not going to listen! sorry its on of those damned if you do damned if you don't kind of things

My mother in law used to do the same thing. Here's what helped- Sit down and explain why these things concern you. Tell her that her grandchildren could come down with diabetes, develop sleeping disorders and turn out to be juvenile delinquents if she doesn't change her ways. But then wink and tell her that spoiling in moderation is great and that is what makes her the best grandma.

i went through this same dilemma recently! i ended up putting my two year old in daycare for three days of the week.for me that was $75.00 for the week.my mom kept my baby all week and my two year old only two days.that way my two year old was being prepared for school he is not being thrown off a schedule and really how bad can you screw up a 8 mth old they don't eat much table food and you can not survive the day without the nap.i hope this helped.hopefully the two days with grandma wont mess up to much of alex's schedule.

♥Well, your mom loves you & she loves spoiling her grandchildren. Most grandparents do that because they want their grandchildren happy & to remember them. Overall though, I'd sit down with your mom & talk about some discipline guideline rules. She might not like all of them, but she will understand that you are trying to be a good parent =)

I suggest writing down what your expectations are, and that you love having her take care of them, because you know how much she loves them, and that they'll be well taken care of (throw in a few compliments), then go ahead and express your concerns.

Talk to your Mom again, tell her exactly what you told us. I'm sure she wants to make things easier for you, but she should abide by your rules. Good luck & best wishes.

Thats grandparents. They love their little grandchildren and want them to be happy with everything and anything they do.,,

just relax and let her be grandma :-)

dont worry its normal

GodBless:-)

look for a free daycare???

i would hate to have to put up with that