Looks Looks and Again Looks.?

Lets face it men and women are first attracted by looks..that gets your/their attention first and intrigues them to want to meet and know more. Seriously though personality really is more important good looks only get a person so far if they are jerks or idiots.

Can't argue that looks are what girls are attracted to in the first place. Unfortunately there are shallow girls that want to be with the 'hot guy' and stay with him for that reason. In our society people are judgmental and place way too much importance on looks. That will only get you so far though. It's just too bad that they can't see beyond that to find out how great an average looking guy can be.

Its not that all girls want JUST looks. Some do, but a lot dont. I mean think for an example, if you met a girl with an amazing personality and wonderful sense of humour but there was no attraction there.

It wouldnt make for a very good relationship if you dont like what the person looks like, right?

ok.

im an 18 year old girl. and i will honestly say looks arent everything to me. personality is a great thing you have to have a good personality to be able to stand being with someone.

but! looks do count you don't want to be mackin on some dog.

and ive had my share of hotties and notties and let me tell you the hot ones...suck haha

they become so consumed in themselves and they're rude ignorant and just ughh!! freaking annoying!!

all you girls out there who haven't learned this..

its better to have an average man with a heart of gold and a great personality who will treat you right

rather then having some trophy bf who would drop you in a dime for someone else or for himself..

You know I kinda agree. I mean personality is very important, but when a girl meets a guy his looks are the first thing she notices. If he is cute, she will communicate with him in a different way than she would if he weren't as easy on the eyes. It sucks, but that is how the generation is right now.

I couldn't care less about a guy's face, as long as he doesn't try to make himself look tough (im just personally not into that look)

But honestly, body matters to me

I like a guy with an attractive body

but ill only truly guy out if im friends with him first(meaning I'd have to like his personality anyway for us to be friends)

Well...I will like a guy who is sweet and caring and loves me. But if he's hot along with that package, I just like him all the better!!

Besides, guys can be the same way towards girls when it comes to looks. It all just has to do with society.

Well u need to have physical attracted to someone your dating so looks play a small part. But for me it's only a sliver of importance a lot of people say my bf is ugly but I don't care. He is hot to me and his personality is wonderful. He treats me well. The same friends who said my bf is ugly are the same ones whose bfs and gfs treat them like **** everyday. Even though they are supposedly considered hot

That is very true...

Imma girl but even i'll admit looks matter in a way.

I'm not ALL ABOUT looks like most girls are.

Usually the guys i go for are said to be "ok"

by most of my friends. But yes it's bullshit

that girls care only for "personality"..

Ur absolutely right.. [:

dude stop asking. just put hte new pix in the same question as additional info. gain confidence A. go to a stylist and tell them to make you look good. then just lose a lil weight, work out, clear your face up and you'll be fine.