What would you do? [Plz help!!!]?

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Ok. I have really I mean really liked this guy for two years. He is two years younger than me. We have never done anything at all. But we get along perfectly. Well, two weeks ago, we finally held hands. Twice. Then he practically kissed me. Then a couple of days later, he didn't even talk to me. Like he said he didn't like me any more and said he hated me. But jokingly, but wouldn't talk to me. Well, we are talking, but it is way different. It seems we are farther away then we used to be. I mean anybody who saw even a glance of us, knew we liked each other. A lot. I just want to know what YOU would do. Should I forget about him, or still like him. I mean when everything was awesome between us, it was weird to tell my friends that I liked him, like they knew that I did, but it was awkward. But now that I can truly say that I like him, I think he less likes me. I never did anything, but I just want to know what you think I should do. Best answer gets 10 points! You can check back later to see what I did. Thanks! Ü

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Oh and just a perspective, people can tell so much that we like each other, that my best friend even has her speech as a maid of honor. This is serious, and he isn't afraid of commitment. He told me that. =]

Alex · Accepted Answer

Don't forget him. He seems like a nice guy, but he might be too embarrassed, or thinks that he made the wrong move with you. Ask him if you two are still friends, and maybe hold his hand, see how he reacts. If it's negative, don't go any farther, just try to stay friends, because you don't want to lose this guy's friendship, it seems. :)

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Cute · Answer

Hey,

I know how you feel. This guy keeps on backing away as soon as you guys get to the point when you two should just become a couple.

It sounds like this guy is afraid of commitment. Like he doesn't want to get tied down to anyone yet. He probably has a lot on his mind, like school, your differences etc.

It's better to leave him alone for nown and keep yourself busy hon. I know it's hard but you gotta trust me on this. I am dealing with a similar guy who doesn't want to get in a relationship. He gives me all the signs of liking me but then backs away. 

I guess we were coming on too strong for these guys.

So just hang in there. Enjoy life and if he really wants you, he will show it. 

Don't act all desperate. It will just make him more proud of himself and back away.

Take it very slowly. LIke one day at a time. Like getting him to say hi first, then getting him to start the conversation so you can see that he actually wants to be with you. If he doesn't, then he doesn't.

I know it seems like you guys are perfect for each other. BUt only time can tell that. So don't put all your eggs in one basket hon. You gotta play it smart with these guys.

Angelina V · Answer

talk to him, 
now that something has happened, you have to talk through it!
good luck!!!

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What would you do? [Plz help!!!]?

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